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Alison Taylor

IN MEMORY OF ALISON NATALIE TAYLOR
1968 - 2021

Alison Natalie Taylor sprinkled her magic far and wide, lighting up the lives of so many. In the light of current travel and gathering restrictions, we have created this space where friends, family, and all those who were lucky enough to have a little Ali in their lives can share their grief and celebrate her life with messages and memories.

Ali’s time with us came to an end on 30/03/2021. After an operation to remove a brain tumor, she suffered post-op complications which led to her passing. She asked “to be remembered with happiness, there’s no time for sadness”.

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  • Hugo says:

    El tiempo hace que tu olor se impregne y de vez en cuando desde un rincon que me invente en casa tenemos varias conversaciones a la luz de la luna. Te amo

  • Kiki says:

    “No tengas lástima de los que ya no están. Ten pena de los vivos y, sobre todo, de aquellos que viven sin amor”

    Ali, dejaste una huella imborrable de luz y amor en este mundo.
    Una luz capaz de iluminar vidas y de deslumbrar personas.
    Un amor capaz de no desvanecerse nunca, capaz de hacer posible lo imposible: ser eterno.
    Gracias. Gracias por aparecer en mi vida y enseñarme tanto sin siquiera ser consciente de ello. Por tu eléctrica sonrisa, tu bonita locura y ese duende que tan poco se deja ver. Por hacer de este mundo (tan injusto como maravilloso) un lugar mágico. Por ser real, libre y ligera…
    Pero, sobretodo, gracias a Rachel, a Isi y a ti por enseñarme y demostrarme lo que es la verdadera amistad.
    Sé que nadie me entiende como tú cuando digo la gran suerte que tengo de tenerlas en mi vida. Pero Ali, no sabría explicarte lo que es poder verlas hablando de ti y sentirte junto a nosotras. Mirar sus brillantes ojos, pegadizas risas y gestos exagerados contando vuestras historias infinitas, surrealistas y repletas de amor por el mundo. Ver vuestras fotos entre mis manos. Verlas bailar, cantar y sentir vuestras canciones. De brindar con una copa de vino entre nuestras manos por ti y por tu vida. Ver tu reflejo en sus miradas. Sentirme parte de un mundo que habéis creado las tres. Sentir que estás observándonos, observándolas estés dónde estés… Sonriendo, bailando y nadando entre mareas de tus dos hogares.
    Soy muy afortunada de haberte conocido, pero la suerte no acaba ahí… porque te seguiré conociendo más y más a través de ellas.
    Kiki.

  • Alex says:

    Todos alguna vez nos hemos sentido identificados en Ali, ella y Rachel eran el reflejo de una amistad eterna, de una gran familia unida.
    Sus historias, tengo que decir, que eran puro arte, y como todo buen arte perdura con los años, ahora solo hay una pequeña innovación, un nuevo narrador, pero harán que vibres y lo sientas de la misma manera, que sientas que está ahí contigo, que te siga inundando esa alegría y ese júbilo que ella provocaba en cada uno de nosotros.
    Ojalá hubiesen sido más las memorias contigo, pero estoy eternamente agradecido por cada momento que estuviste ahí, tanto conmigo, como para lo que ahora considero mi familia.

  • Rach, the other half of the perfect double act says:

    Missing you
    It seems unbelievable that the world has kept turning, the days and weeks have passed, and it is nearly a year since you died, my Ali. It’s still so surreal.
    In the first days it was just shock and disbelief and then frenetic activity while we sorted out everything that made up your life here in Malaga. Then we were all back at work and in a kind of make-believe reality of carrying on without you by our sides, pretending that everything was OK, trying hard not to cry too much in public, trying to be there for each other, trying to cope with the sorrow and loss and the whole process of grieving. And then there were finally quiet times when I thought that I knew what it meant and that I had accepted that you were never coming back, that you hadn’t just gone away for a while (as you used to) soon to be home with stories of your travels, presents for everyone and a thousand photos to show, and I could finally breath more easily because you were here, where you should be, by our sides.
    I was wrong though. Because I hadn’t even started missing you.
    Now I know, or at least I tell myself that I do, what it is to miss you. Every day, every moment, you are always on my mind, in everything I do. You’re a constant presence, even in my dreams. And I miss you in literally countless ways.
    I miss your company. I miss your spontaneity. I miss your fun, your laughter. I miss your exuberance. Your optimism. I miss your messages. Your phone calls. I miss your complicity. I miss the comfort, the security of having you there for Isi, another mother, a mentor. I miss moaning and bitching with you, then miss counting our blessings. I miss your loyalty, your lack of judgement, on my side whatever I do or decide. I miss your solidness, knowing you would come when I call… “give me 10 minutes and I’ll come over on the moto” bringing wine, or medicine, or just sympathy. I miss Wednesday nights. Friday evenings. The sales. A day at the rastro. Jumping in the car and going somewhere, anywhere. Beach afternoons. Coffee in the barrio. Cocktails somewhere innovative. A walk along the paseo. Our infamous weekends away. I even miss the bad times, when we properly needed each other. I miss my confidant, the keeper of my secrets, being the bearer of yours (one day I will have to kill you, you know too much). I miss your naughtiness. That cheeky smile. I miss your fumbly-ness. Even your lateness! I miss your physicality, your hugs, holding your arm while we strolled. I miss our stories, piecing them together between us both. I miss our memories. I miss the ones we were going to make.
    Most of all I miss your unconditional love.
    Does a year mean I’m over this? Does it hell. There will never be another Ali. And that uniqueness, that depth of friendship, comes around once in a blue moon. How could a year erase all that we’ve lived and all that you were? Isi is worried that now people will expect us to “move on” and stop grieving, stop talking so much about you. Yea, that is definitely not going to happen.
    You said “happy and happily” and, as I’m sure you’re watching, you know that it’s what we’re doing. We have fun times, we go out, we laugh, we do stuff, we meet friends, we party, we drink wine, we make the effort, we dance, we try new things, we go on holidays, we put our best foot forward, we enjoy life. We are surrounded by people we love, we are looked after, we support each other, we appreciate all of it. We are living as much as possible because you can’t anymore, so we’re living for you too.
    But still……. When all is said and done. We miss you. We miss you. We just miss you.

  • Rach, to the ultimate mermaid says:

    I must be a
    mermaid
    I have no
    fear of
    depths,
    and a great
    fear of
    shallow
    living.

    Anais Nin

  • Las Alis says:

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  • Fiona says:

    “She was beautiful, but not like those girls in magazines. She was beautiful, for the way she thought. She was beautiful, for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved. She was beautiful, for her ability to make other people smile, even if she was sad. No, she wasn’t beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”
    F Scott Fitzgerald

    “We’re so lucky!” That’s our thing – the little bit I”ll never forget. I was lucky to know you, lucky to love you, lucky to have you in my life. And unlucky… unlucky not to know and love and keep you for longer.

    Your sparkle sprinkles far and wide, Alison Natalie Taylor xxx

  • Marina says:

    Las palabras nunca son más fuertes que las imágenes que generan, en el caso de Ali tenía la misma fuerza en ambas.
    Son incontables las veces que oí hablar de ella antes de conocerla y ya sentía una fuerza inmensa, un ejemplo a seguir, una mujer de la que sentirte orgullosa por cruzar su vida.
    Cuando finalmente pude ver con mis propios ojos esa valentía a la vida y las relaciones, lo único que podía pensar es ” ojala algún día nos vean a isi y a mí de la misma forma que a Rachel y Ali”.
    De todos los ejemplos que he visto en mi vida en relaciones adultas jamás me identifiqué con ninguna hasta conocerlas a ellas, la amistad por encima de todo y todos, y en el fondo supe que podía ser real ese lazo inquebrantable.
    Ali, gracias por hacer a Isi tan feliz, por susurrarme en los viajes familiares las palabras en ingles que no me sabía, por admirar en Grecia las columnas y reírnos de las estatuas absurdas de los museos.
    Una y mil copas de vino en tu honor, con amor Marina.

  • Rocío says:

    La primera vez que vi a Ali, entendí porque había oído hablar de ella cada día desde que conocí a Isi. Recuerdo verla aparecer aquella mañana, con su peto vaquero, camiseta blanca, dos trenzas a los lados y una gran sonrisa que invadía cada espacio a su alrededor. Había ido a ayudar con la mudanza a Isi y recuerdo lo que pensamos todas al verla aparecer por primera vez: “¡Queremos ser como ella!”. La energía que transmitía Ali era única y especial. Su actitud y personalidad no dejaban indiferente a nadie. Su sonrisa siempre te abrazaba y te hacía sentir a salvo de cualquier mal. Ali tenía la capacidad de dejar marca allá por donde iba. Permanecíamos embobadas escuchando sus historias, esas historias que tanto hacían reír y comprendíamos que no hay una Isi sin Ali. Las veces que tuve la suerte de estar cerca de ella me hizo sentir como en casa con su energía y su alegría tan particulares.

    Ali y Rachel nos enseñaron el valor de la amistad, que las amigas son FAMILIA y que la familia que se elige nunca te abandona.

  • IsiBisi BabyBoo says:

    To Ali,

    Alibali you are everywhere. I guess you are everywhere because you always have been, during my entire life. There is not one thing I have done that you weren´t there.

    When I was 3 I was told I had to go to the toilet on my own, like a big girl. It was the most stressful moment of my childhood; my mum had decided I was going to wear tights that day, and trying to pull them up “my tights went all rollypolly and I couldn´t do it”. As I cried telling you and my mum, you started crying too, and still did years after that by just remembering the story. You forced my mum never to put me in tights again. Thank you.

    When I was 5 I got the worst sore throat ever. My mum took me to your place for you to look after me. After you painted my legs and had an artyfarty session with me, you gave me the worst drink in the planet: hot water, ginger, lemon and honey. You shoved it down my throat. When I was ill you stopped being fun Alibali to be mother Alibali. I still cringe at the taste; and still, I have made it for myself every time I have gotten sick since then.

    When I was 7 you took me to watch pirates of the Caribbean. You created a monster. After that all we could do was play pirates on the beach, me always being Jack Sparrow and you Barbosa. You and me, back to back, a “pala” between our hands – One, two, three steps, counted out loud, and BOOM – shoot each other – one fell to the sand – ARRG to that! The pirate thing kept going until the very last day I saw you. I was always your little poppet.

    When I was 9 you, my mum, my dad and myself went to Disney Land Paris. That´s when we started to call each other roommates / sisters; there was always my parents on one bed, and me and you on another. One night on that trip, in my sleep, I put my foot on your hip and pulled the blanket with all my strength to my side. Since that day you always asked for an extra blanket for you – “I´m not bloody sharing blanket with the kid!”. As the years passed that sentence evolved to “Never share a mojito with the kid!” – Famous words that you and my mum even thought of using as the name of the cocktail bar you were going to open in a future.

    When I was 10 you took me to Wok Asia on one of our Isi/Ali days out – some shopping first and go back to the flat to glam up. Let me add, you let me pick out your outfits – I was ten people, she had a lot of fucking courage! Anyway, in spotty skirts, leopard print and a lot of jewelry we went to what became our favorite place… tradition, tradition! We had a massive laugh attack, I peed myself, you ended up crying and throwing everything off the table, and all because we found it hilarious to burp out loud and scare the waiters off.

    When I was 15, I learned how to drive a motorbike. The years of us sharing beso begun. I would run over to yours whenever you weren´t using the bike to steal it from you and go for a ride. I still did that at the age of 23. If I could, I´d be the driver and you´d be at the back, and at every traffic light we would make loud motorbike sounds, pretending we were on a Harley Davidson instead of a little red vespa. We also sung Black Eyed Peas at the top of our lungs when the lights turned green.

    When I was 18 you came to see me and Uni. “It should be meeeeee” started to be your most used sentence. I would call you so much to update you on my lessons and proyects. You were always as excited as I was, so genuinely interested in what I was up to and what I had to say about art, sometimes even more excited that myself! I found in you my art partner; at the end of the day, it was always you who brought out my arty side and made me enjoy it so much.

    When I was 21 my boyfriend came to visit me to Malaga. He had never met any of you – he was panicking and so was I. I knew that introducing you and my mum at the same time was going to be way too much – you two together are quite the show – Luigi and Luchiano come out to play and start having way too much fun. So I kindly asked you if you minded meeting him the next morning for breakfast instead of for dinner – “Yes of course” you said. Hours later I walked in to my house, Alex on my side, ready to have dinner with my mum. And, guess what? Ali opened the door with a bottle of wine in her hand shouting “Aleeeexx!” and filling him with sloppy kisses. “I love to embarrase you and you know it!” she said. Cara dura. I mean, what could I expect really – welcome to the family!

    These are just 8 little moments selected of my whole existence. I have never existed without you. I was born into being Baby Boo, Alibali´s little lamb. You were always part of every step I took in life, from the literal first step to me growing to be my own person. You were always my proud aunty, the proudest.
    I guess something I really miss is you watching me grow. Important moments in my life are happening : I´m finally finding my feet, moving in the direction I want – my first real job in the art world . And maaaaaan would you like it!!! Everyday I go to work I hear “It should be meeeee”. I secretly show you things and talk to you when no one is looking. Everyday I leave the Gallery wanting so badly to call you.
    And there are so many other moments to come that I just can´t imagine without you – how am I going to have children that will never get to meet you? How am I going to meet new people that will never know you? How am I going to see my mother grow old without you by her side?

    But I have decided that you are here. You are everywhere. You are in me. Because you always have been so you will always be. You will hold my hand through every step I take, just in a different way. And I know you are still the proudest aunty I have, because I know you can still see me – well you ARE in me.

    I love you with my whole heart, and I will miss you every day of the rest of my life. You are the best tita / best friend / second mother anyone could ever have. I am the most fortunate girl to have been your little baby boo.

  • Rachel, your partner in crime and laughter says:

    LUCK, LAUGHTER, LOVE
    Something Claire said the other day in our playlist group got me thinking about how much LAUGHING and LAUGHTER was such an essential cornerstone of my relationship with Ali.

    When I very first met her, working together on a Girl Scout’s camp in the USA in 1990, we first laughed together (while jointly in charge of a group of around 45 kids) over a silly double entendre I had made during a kind of water and spoon race. Looking over at Ali then with a wink, we were both suddenly in hysterics. The race went haywire, the kids were perplexed, and we were practically rolling on the ground, unable to speak, with tears running down our cheeks. The joke wasn’t particularly funny, but it started 32 years of friendship, full to the brim with laughter. I had found my other laughing half.

    The very last time I spoke to her at the very end of her conscious life, we also laughed, something inane about the good-looking surgeon (Carlos Haya Hospital Hunk) and not having had time for operation-bikini! I take comfort from that laughter.
    Ali and I laughed loudly and often. We laughed till we cried. Till our ribs ached, till we were doubled over, till our mascara ran, till our jaws ached, till we had to sit down before we wet ourselves.

    Sometimes, in darker moments, we laughed through our tears.
    Often, in company, we laughed inappropriately, to the incomprehension of many.
    Frequently, one of us had to leave a room in order to stop laughing.

    The day after a heavy gym session, I would beg Ali to stop because my stomach muscles were literally in pain. Obviously, she never did!
    Working with her, it was often impossible to even look at her, and I would have to disguise my laughter as a coughing fit while pinching myself or biting my finger to make myself stop.

    Once, in a doctor’s surgery in Germany, where I was acting as (A1 level) translator because she had a skin rash, all was going fine until she uttered the immortal line “It suddenly got worse when I started wearing the gloves” to which we suddenly burst into giggles which turned into hysterical, side-splitting laugher while the poker-faced doctor watched us entirely unamused.

    In Christchurch NZ, we laughed so much in the kitchen of a backpacker’s that we were very nearly kicked out of the hostel. Admittedly, it was around 5am, but we couldn’t stop. Like naughty schoolgirls, the stricter they got with us, the wilder the laughter. The next day my whole face ached from laughing.

    Another time, in a restaurant in Little Italy, NYC, we laughed so much and so loudly in our roles as Luigi and Luciano that our other travelling companion got so frustrated, she literally walked out on us.

    In Paris, both Isi and I had to RUN out of a gift shop because we were laughing so much at Ali’s antics with a rack of fridge magnets that it was becoming downright embarrassing.

    Because Ali was FUNNY!! Really, really, genuinely funny. She had a true talent for humour, for wit, for playing the clown, whether intentional or not.

    She could give me a certain look or make a small gesture across a crowded room and have me choking on my food or snorting into my wine glass. Often, this she would do just for the fun of watching me look silly.
    We had sooooooo many in-jokes gathered over so many years of friendship that literally one word or one facial expression or hand movement could have us rolling in hysterics.

    While trying to retell one of our stories, I would often be laughing so much that I’d have to stop and she take over, or vice-versa. At times, we would just have to give up altogether.

    On the other hand, sometimes it was entirely unintentional and we had to laugh AT her. That was just Ali being Ali.

    Like the story of her trying to put her plastic cup of coffee through the flaps of the metal detector in the Louvre, to the horror of the French security guard.
    Or, to get a beer, pulling out a crate which was holding up a whole table full of drinks, dips and snacks, all tipping onto the carpet at a friend’s party in Munich.
    Or suddenly and inexplicably throwing her full caña (beer glass) up in the air in a crowded tapas bar and then attempting to catch it from one hand to another while the beer sprayed all over her, me and the poor shocked waitress in Torre del Mar.

    Luckily, Ali was very good at laughing at herself too, and equally, had the gift of making others laugh at themselves. It was impossible to take yourself too seriously with Ali around.

    Together, we could take the worst, most disastrous situation, and find its funny side. Even in our saddest moments, we could eventually coax a laugh out of each other. Anything could become an anecdote.

    I look through all the boxes of photos I’ve been left with, and it strikes me how in HOW MANY of them we have our mouths wide open, heads thrown back, eyes crinkling, hands up, having genuine fun, giggling, chortling, laughing out loud.
    It is a wonderful, lucky legacy to have.

    While I’m sure I’ll laugh a lot with many other people in the years I have left, I’m also absolutely certain that I’ll never laugh in exactly the same way as I did with Ali. That laughter was something special, magical, unique, irreplaceable.

    I will bring out our stories to entertain the next generation, as will Isi in her turn, and so on and so on. Ali’s laughter will be legendary; it will outlive us all.
    As for me, I will keep it in the form of little laughter memory bombs, something to treasure, something to brighten up a dull day, and I will suddenly chuckle at all those remembered moments, and giggle in honour of a friendship that was really and truly blessed.

    Ali, I miss you every day, and always will. Unforgettable, amazing Ali, who could light up a room with her smile and sparkle up any day with her laugh.

  • Fletcher says:

    Still can’t find words… I wish I could have some more laughs with you but at least we had some and that makes me very happy. Your smile, your personality…, helped me a lot my first days working with you. I will miss you but I will always smile when I make a cup of tea my way and how angry you got with me when I did so. A huge hug Ali!

  • Nicky says:

    The world keeps on turning in the silence of space,
    Always in motion yet always in place.
    All things will change yet remain what they are,
    Far will be near, and near will be far.

    I can’t answer the question of why you’re so far away,
    The answer’s lost in the stars as night turns to day.
    I know if the silence of night could be here, it would drift through my soul and calm all my fear.
    We can no longer touch you, or see how you shine,
    But we’ll always be together slowly drifting through time.

  • Tu amor says:

    Ali,,,Taylorrr,,,como te hecho de menos y hoy mucho mas , no logro hablar en pasado de ti ni como un recuerdo , pero me faltas cerca , siempre cerca, Ali como puede ser que el dia de hoy durante muchos años lograbas mas magia de la acostumbrada , eras capaz de juntar durante todo el año cositas y envolverlas para este dia , siempre feliz de verme feliz y mientras me dabas los regalos uno a uno ,bailabas,besabas,cantabas, bueno lo hacías a pesar de no ser tu fuerte jjjjj,pero ahi estabas y si no estabas al volver de inglaterra me lo compensadas por mil. Madre mia cuanto amor ,perdona por no ser extenso porque me aflojo , gracias por hacerme feliz ,te amo. En estos dias seguire escribiendote un poco mas .

  • Bridget Bear says:

    This is my eulogy to Ali which I recounted at her funeral in Malaga, but want to share here:

    Hola, I think that everyone here knows me. I am Ali’s mother, Bridget, and I am here in Malaga to farewell Ali, my Little First Born.

    Ali was born in New Zealand when I was 18 and her Dad, Graham, was 19, so the three of us really grew up together.

    Before Ali was three years old, we had started our OE (Overseas Experience) in a roundabout way – having children first and then travelling. We travelled through Australia, England, Denmark, Holland, France, America; even visiting Torremolinos for a Spanish New Year when Ali was ten, then back to New Zealand when Ali was 13.

    Ali never lost her thirst for travel and adventure, and left home as a young woman of 22 for Camp America, never to return to live near home again. She travelled throughout Europe, visited the Americas and finally settled in Spain in 2002.

    It has been hard as a mother having Little First Born so far away but, over the years, you have become her family. She reached out with her characteristic, generous enthusiasm and you responded with love to become her Spanish family. I would like to thank all of you for caring for and loving Ali.

    It was with the greatest sadness that neither me, nor you, nor anyone could protect and keep her safe from the serious complications she suffered after her recent brain surgery. I will always be utterly grateful to each and every one of you for the love, practical help and support you gave Ali. It has been a terrible time to be so far away.

    You may think that this is a strange eulogy – it is about us, not Ali. This is for two reasons: at this stage, I do not feel composed enough to make a testament that is truly worthy of Ali – I feel broken and a bit in a fog . . . and secondly, I love and admire Ali so very, very much that I don’t think I can yet express the depth of my feelings adequately.

    Suffice to say, she has always made me very proud – I am proud of who she is in every way – her sense of fun and adventure, her kindness, her openness and her whole hearted empathy for the people in her life (maybe, not so much, her time keeping). It is too hard for me to even pinpoint one occasion out of the very many wonderful times we have shared – there are no regrets in this regard, they have all been frequent and fabulous.

    I would now like to share something very personal with you. It is some excerpts from the last voice message Ali sent me at 7.52am on that fateful Thursday:

    She said: “Five minutes and I’m off, Mama, but don’t you worry. I’m well looked after and I’m actually feeling OK. I’ve got so many messages and voice bites and so much love and support that I just feel on a little cloud of bouncy loveliness, so I’m really OK. I’ll speak to you again soon. I love you, Mama”.

    She stopped breathing later that night, never to recover, but that does not mean that her life has ended. Her legacy will live on in me and in all of you, and I like to think that we will all try to live up to her memory.

    For me, it will be to say to myself, “What would Ali do?” to guide me in ways of compassion and kindness, with maybe a dash of wild fun thrown in.

    One quote from ‘The Wizard of Oz’ has stayed with me:

    A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved’.

    I think we have all been lucky enough to feel that love and her wild, reckless ways, and because of the sheer wonder of it, was have all loved her back.

    I would like to finish with a message from Rachel (her most worthy partner-in-crime) which she sent to Ali on 19 February 2008.

    Ali filled little notebooks with highlights of her travels, messages from special people and, of course, endless lists. I have been flicking through these over the last couple of days.

    This recounts a quote from Roald Dahl, and befits someone so dazzling who has been taken from us too soon. It reads:

    ‘My candle burns at both ends. It will not last the night. But, ah my foes, and, ah my friends, it gives a lovely light’.

  • Eva Ibáñez says:

    Ali, I can’t find the words to express how I feel. Still trying to digest what all this means to me and everyone else.

    You are very much loved by so many people, by all who have been lucky to be around you in a way or another. I clearly remember the day I met you, a few years ago… There was definitely something special about you..that day, when I found out you were from NZ, I couldn’t help myself and gave you the biggest hug ever. I felt inmediately close to you.

    Your earrings, which I’ve always loved. Your beautiful dresses from the charity shops in Harrow… you got me into that..
    I can’t imagine going back and not seeing you around, walking down the stais in the morning… the colour of your eyes and your big smile always there…
    I have learnt from the people who were very close to you that we can’t be sad but remember you as you were..as you are. That is exactly what I will do.

    Thank you for everything you have shared with us and for reminding us all that we are here to enjoy every minute of it.
    I think of you a lot.
    Always in my heart❤

  • Lilian says:

    Mi preciosa Alison, mi sirena plateada, la reina del día y la noche, del amor y la amistad. Qué difícil escribir todo lo que siento por ti y lo que ha pasado en mi corazón desde que te perdí.

    En todas estas semanas no he parado de pensar en ti, he escrito mi diario, he mirado fotos, he escuchado tu música. He llorado y he reído, más llorado, la verdad. Me han pasado cosas como contar contigo para el número máximo de personas que podíamos sentarnos alrededor de una mesa en estos tiempos de restricciones, he mirado a mi alrededor y he sentido envidia de la gente feliz porque pensaba que era imposible volver a serlo del todo, me ha frustrado no poder enseñarte los nuevos modelitos comprados, toda la música que he escuchado me ha hablado de ti, de nosotras…no es sólo que te hayas ido, es que no paro de echarte de menos.

    Hace muchos años cuando era pequeña, en una película de indios y vaqueros, un gran jefe sioux, decía algo como: cuando yo muera, el río fluirá, la luna brillará, los pájaros surcarán el cielo…o algo así. En estos tiempos de dolor ha vuelto a mí ese recuerdo, y es porque sé que tú estás en todas las cosas ahora, en el mar, el sol, los árboles, las rocas, los ríos, el viento y las olas, en la música y las historias, todo está lleno de ti, y no quiero dejar de sentir esa compañía.

    De todas formas, lo he pensado todo el tiempo también, me quedo con el paquete entero: prefiero mil veces haberte tenido y haberte perdido, que no haberte conocido. Pocos en la vida han podido conocer a una persona tan extraordinaria y hermosa como tú, un ser lleno de luz, belleza, generosidad, alegría, fuerza, inteligencia, humor, compasión, curiosidad, glamour, ingenio, arte, libertad…Sin duda me has hecho mejor persona por haberte conocido y pienso además, ¿a cuántos más? Realmente Ali, tú has hecho este mundo mucho mejor con tu existencia, todo el amor que has desparramado con tanta generosidad, tu estilo incomparable, tu alegría chispeante, el impacto beneficioso para este planeta es incalculable.

    Mientras vivas, brilla…nadie como tú ha seguido ese precepto con más determinación que tú, aunque fuese sin darte cuenta.

    Pienso hacerte caso Alison y recordarte feliz y felizmente. Me ayudarán mi Vikutoru, como a ti te gusta llamarle, mi familia y mis amigos, y sobre todo nuestras patas, Patanegra forever. Y que sepas que iremos a Italia…ya veremos cómo lo organizamos…

    Como sé que te encantaría a Japanese touch, mi compañera perfecta de viaje, aquí dos haiku del maestro Matsuo Bashou (en hiragana):

    ろのこえなみをうって
    はらわたこおる
    よやなみだ

    ro no koe nami wo utte
    harawata kooru
    yo ya namida

    Se oye el remo en las olas:
    un helor por mi cuerpo.
    Lloro esta noche.

    やまじきて
    なにやらゆかし
    すみれぐさ

    yamaji kite
    nani-yara yukashi
    sumiregusa

    Por sendas de montaña
    encontré algo sublime:
    la silvestre violeta.

    Love you Alison, guapa, hasta siempre!!!

  • Kate says:

    Ali Babe!
    I’m gutted, this was not meant to happen. You were going to come through this and we thought we would still be able to FaceTime and chat when you flitted back in to our lives in NZ! We weren’t prepared for this to happen. Gone way too soon.
    I look back on the adventures we all had in the 80s in the halcyon and hedonistic days of the travel industry. The pay was shite but boy did we have a good time! Such fun! Laugh, party, work and do the same again. Each week was a blast. From the 1990 Commonwealth Games Village where we volunteered (so that we could check out the athletes); pretending to be stuntwomen or morticians; the A&P crew and social club; the parties we had at Bradford Street and your treasured visits home to NZ will always be fond memories. Your family and your friends loved you and you take a part of all of us with you.
    Sleep easy my friend.
    Love you, Katie x

  • Claire Drew says:

    I met Ali and Rach whilst working in Malia, on the island of Crete in the summer of 1991. Upon our return to UK in the Oct/Nov Ali, Rach, Bernice and I met at the Long Island Iced Tea Rooms in St Martin’s Lane for a reunion and spoke of our next adventures! Ali and Rach told us their next plan was to head to Sevilla for the 1992 Expo. Bernice and I had worked in Sevilla back in 1989 and so hooked them up with our friend ‘Claire’ (Clarita rubia) who would welcome them, give them a roof over their head until they got sorted and take them around Sevilla. I returned to Sevilla end of 1992 and it was there our friendship really took hold. They were such fun live wires, my mum called Ali and Rach her (3rd and 4th daughters). In 1993 we shared a flat in Triana, there was never a dull moment, bar hopping in our furs and boots, working in Mexican restaurants, dying our hair, even working for the NY mafia equivalent at ‘Sevilla Salsa’ hahaha……….so many stories, laughs and fun times!

    We went on to make so many more memories…………Tarifa, people watching, sunbathing, camping, swimming, sipping cocktails, pescaito frito, Danny and Brother Louie, hysterical laughter, music (everything from The Zombies to disco to 80s to Led Zep to soul), getting pissed, rock bars, more rock bars, putting the world to rights, cafe con leche y churros, rolling home at 6am (or later), resacassssssssssss enormeeeee, crashing around the apartment and trying to subtly wake Ali after a night out !!!

    One particular fun evening with Ali was when we went to the Teatro Cervantes to see Paul Weller. We of course waited at the side door afterwards to see sexy Paul swagger out. We knew we had to speak to him so we ran up to him like two excited 9 year olds and passed him a handwritten note inviting him to come and join us at an Irish Bar in Torremolinos!!! hahaha sadly he never showed…..funny that!

    My fond memories also include Ali and I arranging to go to each others apartments (“the retreat darrrrrhhhhhlinggg”) to get away from our own places for a weekend. I’d get a call a short time before our meet time, “Ayyyyy Clarita, I missed the train so I’m going to be on the next one (never one to arrive on time!! )

    Over the years, I have met so many of Ali’s wonderful friends and family and they all have the same zest for life, adventure and fun. Oh Ali Bali, you really are a rare friend and you will always be here with me…………Malaga will never be the same again mi niña!!! Until we meet again Ali Baba, te quiero xxx

  • Izzy Boo says:

    I haven´t had the courage to write, and still don´t feel I can put down in words what it is she made me feel and keeps on making me feel. In these moments of loss, of Ali and therefore of a part of me, I can only manage to write what I read in her funeral. At some point, I will continue to write some more to her. This is it for now.

    I was never taught friendship. I just lived it. I grew up seeing it every single day. “Friends are the family you choose” was said in my house on a day to day basis. I grew up with two women that were one, partners in crime, and me the kid. I saw how friendship could be even more than family, I saw how they just existed together, they were just intrinsic in one another.
    I also saw it in myself, in us. Alibali, you are more than an aunt; you are my sister, my friend, my roommate at many times, my dress up partner. You are the person I wanted to be when I was older. You are the one that made me a pirate. I am who I am because of you. Because of Rach and Ali, Luigi and Luigianno, mamibami and alibali.
    I will always see you in every wave. I will always see you in every sunset.
    I will see you in every trip, in every goofy laugh, in every glass of wine we have (so I ́ll be seeing you a lot ).
    But most importantly, I will always see you in my mum and in myself. We are a part of you and you are a part of us. That will just never change.

    Nunca me enseñaron que es la amistad. Simplemente la viví. Crecí mamándola. “La familia son los amigos que eliges” era algo dicho en mi casa día si y día también. Crecí con dos mujeres que eran una, cómplices, y yo “the kid”. Ví como la amistad puede llegar a ser más que la familia, vi como simplemente existían juntas, eran intrínsecas la una en la otra.
    Tambien lo ví en mi misma, en nosotras. Era más que mi tita; era mi hermana, mi amiga, mi compañera de habitación en muchas ocasiones, mi compañera de disfraces. Era la persona que yo quería ser cuando fuera mayor. Ella me hizo pirata. Soy quien soy por ella. Por Rach y Ali, Mario y Luigi, mamibami y alibali.
    Siempre te veré en cada ola, en cada atardecer.
    Te vere en cada viaje, en cada carcajada, en cada copa de vino que tomemos (asi que te estaré viendo mucho amiga)
    Pero sobretodo, siempre te veré en mi madre y en mi misma. Somos una parte de ti y tu eres una parte de nosotras. Y eso nunca jamas va a cambiar.

  • Dalia says:

    Abril es el mes más cruel, criando
    lilas de la tierra muerta, mezclando
    memoria y deseo, removiendo
    turbias raíces con lluvia de primavera.
    El invierno nos mantenía calientes, cubriendo
    tierra con nieve olvidadiza, nutriendo
    un poco de vida con tubérculos secos. La Tierra Baldía (T. Eliot).
    A tu memoria. A. N. T.

  • Nicco says:

    I am grateful that our paths have crossed. You had the power to lighten up a room full of people simply with a smile. I’ll cherish the memory of that smile, along with your kindness and joy forever. You will be so missed!

  • Linda says:

    Although I didn’t know Ali so well as I would have liked, her sympathy, empathy, charm, enthusiasm, inimitable stylishness, personal beauty, professionalism, and all-round fantasticness deserve never to be forgotten.
    The tragedy is that her understanding heart, good humour and general togetherness must remain just memories of a life that was far shorter than she deserved.
    But anyone who knew Ali, whether as a friend or colleague will also know that her life should be remembered and celebrated in style, as she wished – with a glass half-full, of course.

  • Rachel says:

    Ali loved a book of poems by Rupi Kaur given to her by her sister Katie. She often kept it by her bedside and folded down so many pages that it is hard to choose which she would have loved the best. It has 4 chapters, “the hurting”, “the loving”, “the breaking” “the healing”.
    I choose two or three from “the healing”, love has so many forms and so many of us loved and were loved by our amazing Ali. This is for you:
    “most importantly love
    like it’s the only thing you know how
    at the end of the day all this
    means nothing
    this page
    where you’re sitting
    your degree
    your job
    your money
    nothing even matters
    except love and human connection
    who you loved
    and how deeply you loved them
    and how you touched the people around you
    and how much you gave them”

    “i have
    what i have
    and i am happy

    i’ve lost
    what i’ve lost
    and i am
    still
    happy”

    “if the hurt comes
    so will the happiness
    – be patient”

  • Ben McCabe says:

    Ali was a joy to know and an inspiration to work with. It doesn’t surprise me at all to see that she touched so many lives in such a positive way; I am eternally grateful for having had the opportunity to work with her at Pilgrims.

  • Jane from Wales says:

    I only met Ali a few times, when she came with my lovely daughter Rachel, to visit us on the Isle of Skye, and later, in Malaga. Such a vibrant soul, such a wonderful companion. A real pleasure to meet up with her, every time. A great person to have as a friend, especially for Rachel.

    Rachel asked me today whether I might like to put the poem I wrote last month into Ali’s rememberance site. I wrote it when I was feeling the loss of my close friend, Elyan, very strongly. I hope it resonates!

    This loss, achingly real, in the small things,
    In the utter silence, no coughs, no rustles,
    No sound of steps down the corridor.
    Even more than silence, no sense of presence,
    Of auras reaching out to communicate
    Wordlessly.

    36 years of companionship
    Cut short- of blessings, mixed blessings
    And compromises, mutual
    Understanding, generosity, support.
    A world full of colour and flexible form,
    Ice grey.

    Slow relief from pain, regrowing
    A hopefully anticipated connection-
    Through the numbness, howls and tears,
    Released into a peace of sorts,
    Aware of the world outside,
    Tentative.

    Spring brings bird-song and crocuses,
    Bud-swell, fledging sparrows surviving
    In the eaves across the road,
    Sunlight stretching into early evening,
    The house, a cocoon overwintered
    To fresh form.

  • Jane says:

    Ali, I only met you a few times. Once on the Isle of Skye, when you and my lovely daughter came visiting. A couple of times in Malaga. But there’s no forgetting you! Your infectious smile and your energy, your ability to make other people feel that life was rich. I know that you will be sorely missed, but also that you live on in our hearts, we who you touched, however briefly.

  • Papu says:

    Sevilla 1993, Ramon says to me “You’ve got to meet my friends, Rachel & Ali!” Then ensued a whirlwind of meeting up on nights out on the ‘marcha’, dancing at the Feria and celebrating the fun of life. Fast forward to London 1994/5, more nights out, 1970s disco dancing at Starsky & Hutch and soup bowls balanced on knees in a London flat. Looking back, I think we only hung out for a couple of years, Ali, but you made such an impression on me – as others have said, the way you connect to people, delighted to see them with enthusiastic greetings, tactile, sharing your infectious zest for life, mischief and fun. You once told me how your mum used to leave treasure hunts around the house for you when you were kids – and you continued that sense of fun and adventure. Your admiration and love for your soul sister, Rachel, even back then, was unique and wonderful to witness; you complement each other so well, like two peas in a pod!
    I feel so grateful to have met you and spent time with you, even for that short period in our lives, before we both moved on to pastures new, and later over Facebook. Even more than that, I’m so glad the world got to have you in it Ali, touching the lives of so many. You made everyone feel special when, in fact, it was you that was the special one all along!
    Andy & I wish you much love on your onward journey, your next big adventure! And when I look at the sky on a clear night, I almost imagine the twinkling of the stars is one of your cheeky winks. Besos xxx

  • Georgette Goodin says:

    Dear Ali,

    The first day I met you – we danced in top hats with feather boas and I laughed every day following that. A wicked sense of humour and a wonderful heart.

    You had such a passion for living every day with laughter and happiness. Everyone who has been fortunate enough to meet you, has been touched by your approach to life and I hope that true to you, we will all continue to make the world a brighter place, as you did.

    Thank you for sharing your ‘magic’ with me. You will be so missed. Xxx

  • Heather says:

    I’ve tried so many times to say how I feel but don’t seem to have the words. I feel very privileged to have known you. You probably did not know it but you made such an impact on my life even though I didn’t know you for long. You gave confidence to teach and made me believe in in myself. I will never forget your warmth, positivity and energy. Your light was infectious touching everyone around you. You were one amazing lady that I will miss but will forever be in my heart.

  • Humberto Medina says:

    Leí una vez acerca de la consciencia;
    – “Si sufres, estás dormido.” Haciendo clara alusión de aquellas personas que sinviven desde el miedo. Pero tú no has hecho otra cosa en esta vida que sonreír, y hacernos sentir especiales con tu mirada. Por tanto, aunque quisiera, no puedo imaginarte de otra manera hoy, ayer y siempre que brillando con las estrellas. Oír tu risa en el susurro del viento al árbol. Sentir tu abrazo al perder mi vista en el inmenso mar.
    Te quiero bella Alison.
    Hu.

  • Justine Taylor says:

    There’s something everlasting and eternal about my sister Ali.

    Even when I was young and had barely spent much time with her at all, I knew all about the legendary Alison Taylor – who fearlessly lived in a foreign country worlds away from home; who taught herself Spanish, and instilled herself into the community and culture of this little place called ‘Malaga’; who went everywhere and did everything with her bestest friend Rachel; they travelled all over the world and did the wackiest things – usually in fancy dress.

    She was like the lead heroine from an adventure book you read as a child, and she embodied everything I hoped to become once I got older.

    I was fortunate in my late teens to spend some months living with Ali in her little torre. I gained a new sister in Katie, as Ali shared the other side of her family with me, and proceeded to open up her whole life in Malaga for us both to see. I don’t know if Ali realised how much she really set the course of my adult life, after that Spring in Malaga.

    I could go on and on about all the life lessons, and less-educational-but-highly-entertaining happenings of the time I’ve spent with Ali. The wonderful thing is I don’t have to go on and on, because I know that the unconditional love and enthusiasm she shared with me, she shared with absolutely everyone she knew! I’ll never know where she garnered all that energy to ceaselessly greet everybody with the biggest and most affectionate “HOLA GUAPA!” – I think her voice will echo in my head for the rest of my life.

    I don’t think I thought the day would ever come where we would be without Ali in our lives – something about living legends make you feel they’ll always be there. But, I do know – her fierce love for her Kiwi and Spanish families, and her vivacious zest for life are invincible, and that is the legacy Ali leaves behind with us all.

    I will always be emboldened by Ali’s memory to not take myself so seriously, to get out there and see the world at all costs, to befriend and learn to understand people from all walks of life, to dress in more colour, to be generous with my time and energy, to squeeze more fun into any situation, and to cherish my loved ones SO hard and not let our bashful kiwi tendencies get in the way of that.

    And so – my sister Ali, “the legend”, you are indeed eternal to us all ❤️

  • Alicia "oh Ali" says:

    Oh Ali 🧜‍♀️cuanto te quiere todo el mundo, no puedo parar de llorar por la emoción de leer todas esas palabras tan bonitas que tantas personas tienen para ti. Y es que Alison Taylor es amor, risas, estilo, generosidad, empatia…..todo lo bueno y ni pizca de maldad…eso si con carácter y poderío. Te echo de menos todos los días pero intento no estar triste como tu quieres …la sonrisa me viene pensando en todos los divertidos momentos vividos juntas y tantos chascarrillos como Ali Gueta…Pata negra… 🖐✌👊🤘paper scissors rock & roll en fin Q el vacío es muy grande y te echaré de menos toda la vida …te quiero Alison Taylor como la trucha al trucho siempre siempre estarás conmigo❤🧜‍♀️…continuara….

  • Lis says:

    What can I say about Ali? That she was sunlight on the cloudiest day, a warm gust of fresh air when everything seemed stale, laughter when you felt like crying; the kind of soul who you are lucky to meet once in a lifetime.
    I met Ali, as did so many of us, through Rachel. Ali and Rachel, Rachel and Ali – you couldn’t mention one without the other. Ali became part of the circle of people I am proud to call my friends, and from day one I just loved her. She was warm, funny, interesting, passionate, she always had time to listen and her empathy was one of the things we all seem to agree on as something rare and wonderful. Over the years I have shared with Ali nights of wine, gin, food and laughter; parties, clubs, trips, markets, birthdays, picnics…so many memories. Her presence always lit up the room, I have some beautiful memories of times at my own home when Ali brought her lovely spicy biscuits, and when we sang our hearts out to all the old cheesy classics while celebrating Christmas with the rest of our gang. The silly games, humming tunes while giggling, rolling our eyes as Rachel read out lottery numbers for our Secret Santa gifts…happy days and nights.
    Then there was Ali the teacher and the examiner. Again, I have been lucky enough to also be in her life in those roles, often gving her lifts to jobs and catching up in the car, then examining together – always such a pleasure to work with her. She would always buy my coffee as a totally unnecessary thank you, How I will miss seeing her roll up on her trusty (not always!) moto, apologising for being late (which for jobs she really wasn’t, can’t say the same for nights out!)
    And the last time we talked, you were drinking coffee on your terrace the day before the big op. You were nervous of course, but upbeat, positive, thinking of others before yourself, how we weren’t to worry. Totally you.
    I still cannot process what has happened, still can’t believe you won’t be there when we can finally have a group get together once more. But you will be there, you live on in all of us, we carry a piece of you in our hearts. Because we were so, so lucky to share your life and that light that shone from you can never be dimmed. I think we have all vowed to love our lives not just “happy and happily” but “full and fully”, you taught us that – in 52 years you lived so much more than most people would in 80+ years. Your energy and zest for life, your intrepid spirit and fearlessness for travel and new experiences serves as an example to us all.
    So, I will miss you darling Ali, so much, but I will always cherish the memories of times spent together. I will look after your soul sister and I will see you in the waves, in the rays of the sun, in a rainbow, always smiling. Fly high. xxxxx

  • Rachel Armstrong says:

    This is my speech from Ali’s funeral, and it seemed the easiest thing to write here at the moment. As time goes by and the pain gets less, no doubt I’ll write again. Anyone who knows me knows I’m never short of words. For the moment, for you Ali:

    Where do I start? How do you sum up everything that was Ali in a few lines? I could talk till sunset and I wouldn’t even have started. For her 50th birthday I made her a photo story book of what was then our 30 years of friendship, and it started like this:
    Spanning 3 decades, 5 continents, 20 countries and over 80 cities, this is the story of a travelling friendship between 2 girls who, from the moment they met in the rural farmlands of Pennsylvania, shared a restless spirit, a wicked sense of humour and a burning desire to see the world, a taste for adventure and all things new, a love of wine, general nuttiness, somewhat dubious taste in men and impeccable taste in friends, and an almost blind belief in their capacity to make it anywhere and to live life to the full. Never could these two itchy-footed 20 somethings have imagined how far their travels could take them or just how many adventures they would live together.
    Two drifters, off to see the world, such a lot of world to see.
    This is the story of Ali and Rach, two almost inseparable words, Kiwi and Cockney, Luigi and Luciano, La Rubia y La Morena.
    She was my other half, two halves of a whole, my partner in crime, my soulmate, my dancing partner, my better half, the best person I knew to giggle with, drink with, chill with, party with, travel with, joke with, chat with, and generally BE with.
    We were a double act. We knew we had to tone it down when with other friends, go easy on our hundreds of AliRachisms and catchphrases. I could start a sentence and she would finish it, or vice versa. We had a million in jokes, a million nicknames. Back in the travelling days we named our backpacks, our clothes, our flats, our new acquaintances, our boyfriends. You will know that Ali took that a step further by naming her furniture and domestic appliances, even her underwear!
    Without her, a part of me will always be missing.
    Before she died she wrote “Remember me happy and happily, there is no time to be sad”. And that will be my motto as I carry on through life without her. I will try to live as she would have wanted, try to rejoice in everything she loved. A swim in the ocean, A cocktail at sunset, A weekend break to anywhere new, Dressing up and going out, a wander around the shops, A coffee in the sun, A lazy Sunday morning.
    People say true friends are those who you can call at 4 in the morning and they will come running. If I could wake her up, she would have certainly done that. She was the most empathetic person I know, champion of a lost soul, truly altruistic, an amazingly good listener. So completely on my side that if I was in a crisis, she would panic more than me. I got annoyed with her when I was pregnant and feeling contractions and she started hyperventilating. If someone did me wrong, she would be even angrier than I was. If I had a new friend, they were automatically her new friend too.
    Ali and I used to have regular sessions in which we would “Count our Blessings”. We would often write them on a list (we loved a good list!). However small or mundane they would have seemed to others, for us they were blessings. So while right now it would be easy to cry, scream, and wail at losing my best friend and sister so young, I choose to count the blessing of having had Ali in my life, of having HAD such a unique, true, blessed friendship, and to have laughed and loved so much at her side. I fully understand what an amazing blessing this has been.
    I have been told so many times this last week that Ali was the heart and soul of any event, a funlover, highly sociable and outgoing, open to everything and everyone. Her staying power at a party was legendary. But she was also a person who thoroughly loved her own company, who knew how to enjoy a moment just for and with herself. She could throw on a wig and high heels and party on her own in her house after a night out. She could go down to the beach and enjoy an hour in the surf all alone. She could potter around her house or simply sleep a Sunday away. Most certainly, she was a DISFRUTONA, and will always be remembered that way.
    Ali this is not goodbye, I will take you everywhere I go and talk to you every day of my life.
    Let me quote the well-known poem by Mary Elizabeth Frye, which I have taken the liberty of changing to fit our mermaid pirate Ali Natalie Taylor, my sister del alma y Corazon

    Do not stand at my grave and weep
    I am not there. I do not sleep.
    I am a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the tides that come and go,
    I am the sunset over the sea
    I am the grass, the plants, the tree
    When you awake in the morning hush
    I am the sweet uplifting rush
    Of seagulls circling in flight
    I am the bright stars that shine at night
    Do not stand at my grave and cry
    I am not there. I DID not die

  • Duca Montoya says:

    Te conozco sin conocerte; toda tu energía, positivismo y alegría se seguirá extendiendo a través de tus huellas. Gracias Ali.

  • Lizzy says:

    Beautiful Ali, you touched my life briefly but with great impact. Vivacious, vibrant, vivid, gorgeous, generous, full of exuberant sparkle and joy.
    I have a lasting memory of you from Candy’s Zoom lockdown house parties, we danced together across continent’s and just a few short weeks ago you were sharing your badass superhero soul.
    Fly Ali fly ❤

  • Lisa A says:

    Dear Ali, I had the privilege to laugh, dance and share the joy of music with you through the house party zoom crew. The fact we will never get to “drop some shapes” on the dancefloor saddens me, the fact that your energy and smile will always be remembered but your dear family and friends will not be graced with your presence saddens me, but the fact our paths crossed through friendship and great people, comforts me. Shine bright Ali as the star you have been for so many xx

  • Santosh Robinson says:

    Ali, I am so shocked and sad that you are no longer with us.

    There are very few people that I’ve met and thought ‘that’s a really kind beautiful human being’. You were that and so much more. I remember meeting you at Candy’s birthday party a very long time ago, and then seeing you on the Saturday night lockdown zoom parties…you had not changed at all. You were fun, funny, always laughing, with such a positive attitude and energy – not to mention your beautiful taste in clothes and jewellery.

    Reading through the messages shows what a truly special person she was and how Ali touched so many lives. A rare gift indeed. I feel blessed to have known you Ali. Gone far too soon but you will always be remembered.

    My deepest condolences to Ali’s family and friends.

  • Candy Cane says:

    Sweet, beautiful Ali, I have so many wonderful memories of our crazy, fun and deep times together. I am remembering many nights out in Sevilla and Granada and our Friday nights in the Doghouse with Rachel and Ange. Do you also remember our crazy Notting Hill Carnivals where we ended the night in a dark, narrow club? I was also so lucky to visit you in New Zealand in 2002 and meet your Mum, Nick, Jon, Katie, your Dad, Justine, Charlotte, Hillary and many more family and friends. I was welcomed so warmly by everyone and spent one of my favourite Christmases ever with the Bears. New Zealand was all time favourite trip. We did so much – swimming with seals, hiking, kayaking, house party on the beach, drinking all that wonderful NZ wine and wherever we went you attracted an admirer! We had the maddest New year camping and getting to know new, younger friends! NZ brought out the rock goddess in me. I am indebted to you for getting me into Justin Timberlake. And Ali, I am remembering how you were there during the toughest time of my life and were physically there when I felt so alone. You always made me feel safe with your enormous love and spirit. Your love and generosity pure and unconditional. Then very recently we got through lockdown together with the Zoom house parties. You were a hardcore house party member and “badass bitch” as we danced to all those tunes of a lifetime.

    Now you have physically left us, I feel your spirit guiding and protecting me. I am living every day in your honour and thinking, what would Ali say, what would Ali do? I am going to keep on celebrating your life by giving to others, laughing out loud, dancing until my legs ache, spending even more time with friends and treating myself to glamorous clothes. You will live in my heart and hearts of so many forever.xxx

  • Marie says:

    I first met Ali years ago in Spain through my friend Claire. Too many fun times were had…from Sex and the City at the Tamisa Hotel, hippy trips to Tarifa, a hen do in Malaga and a wedding in the UK. All my memories of Ali are of an uber stylish, vibrant, upbeat, intelligent, beautiful and caring person. She had great taste in friends who cared for her deeply and I know she will leave a big hole in everyones lives. I feel lucky to have experienced a little ‘sprinkling’ of Ali over the years and that I knew her just enough to know how amazing she was ❤ My love and thoughts go out to all her friends and family and Rach and Issi xxxxx

  • Nuria says:

    Que suerte tuvo la ciudad de Málaga el día que allí aterrizaste. Con tu luz hiciste brillar cada rincón que pisabas, bueno más bien en el que bailabas. Eres tan especial, tan alegre, tan bonita…nos has hecho la vida mejor a todos los que te hemos conocido. Estoy tan agradecida por todos los buenos ratos que hemos pasado…y… te voy a echar tanto de menos…Ali, te veré en todas las estrellas que brillan en el cielo.

  • Katie says:

    Ali I am so sorry to hear you are no longer with us. I can’t believe it. Such a vibrant, bright light you will never truly be gone. Your presence was felt by everyone you came into contact with and you will remain in their memories and hearts. Sleep tight xxxxx

  • Álvaro P. says:

    Ali, te has ido, y contigo te has llevado las palabras que debería haber aquí, y ahora solo queda el hueco, y ese hueco es el mismo vacío que dejas en tantas almas huérfanas de ti y que aún te necesitan. Y ahora todos tienen que aprender a vivir sin ti, sin tu presencia, sin tu sonrisa, sin tu optimismo… En mi memoria conservo recuerdos que desde ahora son tesoros en mi cabeza.

  • M. José Mula says:

    Querida Alison siempre te recordaré con tu sonrisa, tu optimismo, tu alegría, tu buen hacer con los que te rodeaba, has dejado una huella que no se olvida.

    Un beso

  • Finn Thompson says:

    Ali was one of the funnest grownups I knew and she always made Malaga feel like a second home. She was such and upbeat person and I never heard complain about anything. I wish she was still here.

  • Katie Bundle Bear says:

    10 things I learnt from my big sister blister
    1. A love of photos – taking them, being in them, posing for them, collecting, posting and sharing them. In the end, it has been so special having my favourite memories frozen in time and in colour. They make me feel like I am there with you again. In Spain. In New Zealand. In Hawaii. I can hear your laugh just by looking at your smile and feel your hug just by looking at a photo of us hugging. But honestly woman, you took so many god damn photos! Haha
    2. A hate love relationship with g-strings – the most impractical, horrifically uncomfortable but cheeky brief
    3. A dislike for anything beige and boring – especially anything from Country Road
    4. How to make and maintain friendships. You were a direct role model for me during my year abroad, when I was 18 and impressionable. I would not have formed the unbreakable bonds I have with my group of girls, if you haven’t shown me how important, satisfying and valuable it is. You have left behind a piece of your heart and a piece of your soul in the friendships you have cherished – I feel you in Rachel and in Isi; in Alicia and Lilian; in Nacho; in Ang, Dina and Candy; and in the many more people who will live life with you on their shoulder.
    5. To not be afraid to do things by myself, or for myself, and never forgetting the strength of being a woman.
    6. A love of getting dressed up – whether into heels and lipstick, or into wigs and fancy dress – there is always an excuse, you just have to look closely for it (or in your case not that closely…)
    7. How to be a good daughter. We all know you were the golden child – yes, I know you’ll be rolling your eyes – but good grief you leave some big shoes and a heavy mantle. You taught me to patient with Mama, to love her flaws, empower and encourage her quirks and respect her for the powerful goddess she is. I’m still working on some of them, but I promise that I will try to be the best daughter I can be, and in your absence, Nick, Jon and I promise to look after Mum and love her endlessly, just like you do.
    8. How to party. Between you, mum and I we really have organised a shin dig or two. It must run in our genes just like being late and loving champagne.
    9. I must have definitely caught the most infectious form of travel bug from you. It’s a very expensive hobby and I blame you for this. There is so much of this world to see, and you got to see such a big chuck of it. Always one to embrace a different language, exotic foods and befriend foreigners without batting an eyelid – a real life Carmon San Diego.
    10. Sloppy, big lipstick kisses – the type that you have to wipe off before going out in public. Please have one of these big sloppy kisses waiting for all of us, along with a big mojito, a bit of Fat Freedys and a slice of sunshine. My world will not be the same without you in it, but every adventure and milestone will be celebrated together and I can’t wait to share them all with you. Por supuesto guapa, muchos besos fuertes para siempre xx

  • Martha❤️ says:

    My beautiful Auntie Ali…
    Thank you for making Malaga feel like a home away from home. I will always remember the parties both on and off the beach and smile at the pictures of us dressed up in amazing outfits – I am proud to have inherited all those crazy sunglasses you gave me and promise to party hard in them in your honour. I will miss you and Rachel constantly competing to “out-Auntie” each-other by trying to see who could buy me a better present. Along with your lip-stick kisses, our constant gossip and drinking mock-tails/ cocktails at balneario together as we watch the sun go down. I aspire to be as carefree, loving and vibrant as you. I will never walk past the mermaids tower without thinking of you and all the magical memories we shared together.
    Love you always,
    Martha ❤️🧜‍♀️🏴‍☠️

  • Alicia Delgado says:

    Dear Ali,
    It was a pleasure to have met you as teacher and as person. Your contagious good vibes have illuminated many grey mornings.
    Wherever you are I am sure you are shinning!
    You will always have a special place in my heart ❤.
    I will miss U.

  • Paul says:

    The ceremony today was filled with warmth and emotion. Thank you to all the speakers who conveyed feelings from the heart, and for sharing with those of us viewing online. I first met Ali in summer school in London, and cherish every memory from those days. She was always smiling, and always kind to absolutely everyone. A beautiful soul gone too soon. x

  • Ange Thompson says:

    Our beautiful mermaid, pirate who always made everything so much fun! I was so lucky to meet you and Rachel in the Expo in 1992, we then stayed on in Sevilla and Candy joined the gang! So many dance floors, parties and little wines between Sevilla, Granada, London and Malaga over 29 years! You have given up the mermaids tower many times for us to stay over the years and whipped up a lovely lunch on your terrace. Martha and Finn always loved hanging out with Ali and would usually leave your flat with some funky shades or something to dress up in!

    Neil and I loved having you to stay after your summers at Pilgrims when you would arrive barely able to speak and we would try to look after you a bit and hear all your tales….attempting the assault course after a few drinks was a particular favourite!

    We are so lucky to have had you in our lives and will cherish all of our memories and keep your spirit and lust for life and our hearts!

  • Neil says:

    I will miss you Ali, you kind, caring, crazy, mermaid, pirate with the WORST northern accent ever!

    I’m very grateful to have been your friend and to have had such good times with you and Rachel in Malaga and London. Thanks for the love you showed Martha and Finn. I know some of your zest for life (and a party) has rubbed off on them too xxx

  • Ángela Jiménez says:

    Querida Alison:

    Me he quedado sin palabras y enfadada al ver lo injusta que a veces es la vida … Tuve el placer de conocerte a través de una pantalla, la cuál traspasabas con tu cariño y cercanía, ojalá hubiese podido ser en persona… Gracias por esos ratitos que aunque clases eran, estaban llenas de risas y sobre todo gracias por hacerme creer en mí misma.
    ¡Vuela muy alto preciosa!

  • Della Rose Porter says:

    I first met Ali when I was around 13 when I was visiting Malaga with my family. To describe her aura was euphoric, charismatic, and liveliness simply radiating from her. I remember that holiday vividly as I have still never met someone with such a joyful spirit.

    On that day, I was a little insecure about myself but Ali effortlessly brushed that feeling away with her exuberant energy. Like many others, she has touched many of our hearts and she will live on through the beauty she created in this world. ❤️

  • Deanne says:

    Ali, your beautiful smile and warm presence radiated the screen as we danced to the many songs selected for our zoom ‘house’ party. Though my acquaintance with you was not long in terms of years, my encounter of your joyous spirit will remain in my heart forever. You always had positive words filled with energy and this will be your legacy. You are a beautiful soul and I feel privileged and blessed to have known you. Rest in peace.

  • Lucy Whitehouse says:

    Ali is joy, and fun, and love. Always a mischievous play of laughter on her beautiful eyes and mouth. Her voice! Husky and generous and laughing and kind. Her affectionate giggle.

    I love you Ali, and I’ll hold you always. Like how you held others. And I’ll be living with all the excitement, generosity and fearlessness that you did.

    A twinkle on the ocean, and a heart full of love. 🌟🐚💜🌊✨

  • Phil Armstrong says:

    From the first time I remember meeting Ali 20 years ago in Spain through to the last time we met a couple of years ago in London, she never changed – she was always the same smiling, ecstatic, energetic, interested, compassionate soul, who could make it feel she was your greatest friend for those few moments you were together despite you seeing each other once in a blue moon. I was always in awe at how she could forge a bond with anyone of any age – from toddler to grandpa – and leave a trail of lasting friendships in her wake. She became a part of our family with a connection to every generation, and she always will be.

  • Ellie says:

    Ali,
    You were my far away Aunty, who lived halfway across the world in Malaga. Who I rarely got to see, but whenever we did meet you would ask about life and I always knew you were genuinely interested.
    When I think of you, the word that comes to mind is bright. You were sunshine personified. Whenever someone mentions your smile I see it stretching across your face. When they mention your laugh I can hear it loud.
    I will forever miss you and the fact I won’t be able to stay when I eventually travel.
    ‘My candle burns at both ends, it will not last the night. But oh my foes and oh my friends, it gives a lovely light’ – Roald Dahl
    Besos sirena
    Love Ellie <3

  • Chloe Holgate "Colgate" says:

    I’ll be forever grateful for all of the time we spent together. From working together at Pilgrims to drinking cocktails on the beach in Spain. We had so much fun, or ‘TOO MUCH FUN’ as you’d always say. I was so lucky to know you for so many years.

    Thank you for being an amazing friend and the most fun, positive person ever. You’ll always be a huge inspiration to me and life will not be the same without you – nor would we want it to be.

  • Jo Jeyaratnam says:

    Warm, compassionate, generous, life-loving, and a bundle of fun is how I will always remember lovely Ali.

    I met Ali and Rachel in Sevilla back in the days of Expo’92 and have kept in touch ever since. Ali always opened her heart and home to us whenever we visited Malaga, and she certainly adopted the phrase “mi casa es tu casa” along with everything else that is great about Spanish culture. Her lust for life, laughter and warmth added to her pure beauty and it was always a real pleasure being in her company.

    Her beautiful spirit will live on in all of our hearts and I look forward to celebrating her life, the way she would want us to – with a glass of bubbles in one hand and a big smile on our faces. xxx

  • Maria Garcia-Jaramillo says:

    Dear Ali, I still can’t believe it, these days have been very hard for me.It’s going to be difficult to find an English teacher as amazing, as kind, as helpful and as happy as you were, but one thing I know is that I will never forget you, it has been awesome having clases with you during these eight years. I want to thank you for everything, not only for the English you have taught me, but also for being a friend for me.Even though you are gone, you will always remain in our hearts❤️

  • gary bailey says:

    Ali was a beautiful, bubbly and downright funny friend. Memories of clubbing and dancing 💃 spring to mind. The joy of life is often misunderstood and not fully appreciated. Not so with Ali. She embraced every day with a smile and a wink 😉

    We will hold you dear in all our hearts

    ❤️ ❤️

  • Richard Blanchette says:

    Fly high beautiful lady! You were always a bright light from the ‘A&P-family’ days through to London, and beyond. Thank you for being a friend and more and for sharing that beautiful gypsy smile with the world. Fun and fond memories always Ali. X❤️

  • Gloria says:

    Querida sirena, ya los océanos te pertenecen y quizás, algún día cuando esté haciendo paddle surf, salgas a saludarme. Sé que me acompañarás. Estoy convencida de ello. Cómo una estrella fugaz pasaste por mi vida llenando cada instante pasado contigo de luz, amor y calor. Tu aura se queda aquí, con nosotros. Nos ayudarás a verlo todo más bonito y a seguir repartiendo alegría como tú tan bien lo hacías. Seguirás siempre presente Alison Taylor, y permanecerás bella para la eternidad. Te quiero for ever and ever 💞

  • Tracy Schaverien says:

    I first got to know Ali in the early 90s after my sister Claire met her and Rachel on their travels and became lifelong friends. When I travelled solo to New Zealand in early 1995, Ali’s mum Bridget and family very kindly welcomed me into their home in Auckland and Ali and Rachel showed me a good time – always one of their special talents. In the years since, I caught up with Ali many times on our holidays to Spain. When my son was about five, I remember Ali taking him for spin around Malaga on the back of her moped, which he thought was very cool! Ali was always great company; full of fun, warm, friendly, kind and thoughtful, with an eternal free spirit. The last time I saw Ali was two years ago when Claire and I took our parents (who had also fallen in love with Ali) for a long weekend in Spain. We had a long, boozy lunch at El Puerto in Fuengirola, never imagining it would be the last time we’d spend together. Ali crammed so many adventures into her life – she certainly knew how to live – and my heart goes out to her family and to Rachel and Isi, to whom she was so much more than a friend. Rest in peace Guapa xx

  • Joe says:

    All my memories of Ali, are happy memories. She brought joy to everything she did and all the lives she touched.

    When I think of her, she is adorned in a ludicrous homemade crown, all the kids are shouting MORNING Big Chief or Queen of the Galaxy (or whatever she’d decided on that year) … and she is just having the best time. And that’s where she’ll always be.

    I’m sad you left us so soon. The world will be a little less lovely without you.

  • Alastair and Janice Glennie says:

    From the time she was a tiny baby, Alison was the sweetest girl — not the forever crying baby or tyrannical toddler. She was a happy, content child. (Her grampy called her Alison Mckenzie of Peyton Place fame.) When the Taylor family embarked on their international work life, Alison was an able caretaker for her younger brothers and, to some degree, for her parents, too!

    Her life in NZ, Australia, Britain and eventually Spain was exactly how she wanted to live. With her vitality and marvelous sense of humor, she had an ability to attract lifelong friends at any age or location. We were reminded of this reading her remembrance page. We knew Alison was popular, and the comments bear this out — the posts were heartwarming to Janice and me.

    Our greatest regret was not visiting Alison in Spain, though a trip there was in planning stages once the pandemic gave us the all clear. We lived and enjoyed Alison’s Spanish life through photos and messages and always noted that she was surrounded by friends and excitement — this was what she thrived on, you see! But we count our lucky stars to have spent precious time with her on visits to Hawai`i and New Zealand where we shared long walks, giant family meals, and even amazing flamenco dancing by her dear Issi!

    Not unlike you, Alison’s passing came as a terrible shock to us — one that only time will heal. But we take great comfort knowing she was surrounded by people who love her as much as we do. We trust she’ll be as lucky to have such love and companionship during her next adventure.

    A hui hou, Alison

  • Loisa says:

    Dear Ali,
    I can only say thank you. You were such a pleasure to be around, you lit up the room with your never faltering smile as soon as you walked in everyday, immediately chatting, joking, laughing and without realising it, brightening up everyone else’s mood. Your positive energy and fun loving attitude to life was contagious and an example to follow.
    You will be greatly missed and always remembered.

  • Simon says:

    Ali, your insatiable hunger for life, your fun-loving, free-spirited personality. Everything about you will be so sorely missed by so many people whose hearts you touched.

    During all those summers, we built up such an awesome partnership and bond; the likes of which can only really come through Pilgrims. We complemented one another so well and I learnt so much from you.

    I think you’re the one person who enjoyed dressing up even more than me. You certainly enjoyed going into Harrow to buy stuff more than I did. Although you did occasionally drag me down and there’s nobody I’d rather walk around Wilkos with! Never again will I ever buy a tube ticket without thinking about you and your meticulously worked out way to take on the machine!

    Oh, and your love for your notebook and its handwritten pull out 3-week plan. If it wasn’t in the notebook, it wasn’t worth knowing. I promise I’ll write stuff down from now on.

    I can’t believe we won’t get to do that one last summer. You’re a great friend and I’ll never forget all the fun and laughs we had together.

    You brought so much positivity into the lives of all of us who were lucky enough to know you so The Oscar for The Greatest Person you could ever wish to meet goes to Ali Taylor.

    I’ll miss you old girl. You’ll forever be the Duchess of Harrow xx

  • Nacho says:

    Mi francesita:

    ¡Ya te vale!
    Que nos has dejado a todos con la boca abierta y el corazón encogió, te has largao de viaje otra vez; pero sin avisar, muy discreta, como tu sólo saber ser.
    Sin embargo nuestros corazones se han llenado de tu luz, de tu generosidad, de tus colores, de tus sonrisas Y todos sabemos que sigues viajando: LIBRE, ya sea en tu siempre destartalada moto, volando entre continentes o nadando en tus mares, pues eres también la Sirenita (little Marmaid) de todos ellos.

    Tus alumnos, sus padres, tus compis de trabajo, tus amistades, tu familia y hasta tus ex ¡¡Te adoramos todos sin excepción!!

    Dios y la vida me ha dado la sazón de poder compartir contigo tantos y tan maravillosos años.
    ¿Te acuerdas que pasamos juntos la mejor noche de Fin de Año de nuestras vidas? En Madrid, la del 2010. Sí, después de una exquisita cena y la sesión fotográfica de rigor, aparecimos en el pub “Consentido” de Malasaña, dónde todos nuestros sentidos se vistieron con toda la gama de colores de la diversión.
    De igual modo,nuestros paseos, cogidos del brazo, una tarde noche cualquiera,cayendo el chirimini por Pedregalejo, charlando de nuestras cosas, oliendo a mar y terminar tomando unas chicken wings o un espeto….

    ¡Te voy a echar tanto de menos! Sí; pero mi desazón será expulsada por el destello tu sonrisa eterna, mi amiga.

    Tu Sunshine

  • Trevor Newman says:

    Like Lisa and Michelle, I remember you from Atlantic and Pacific days. Even more than 30 years later – I still remember that dazzling smile and that exuberant love for life. Right now I’m thinking about that A&P softball tournament at Okahu Bay. A sunny day, good friends, you, undera baseball cap, wearing that smile and those hoop earrings. Smile on.

  • Arlo says:

    Aunty Ali has a beautiful voice and now she sends us sound waves.😍♥️

  • Dina says:

    Honoured and Privileged / Never Forgotten
    I feel honoured and privileged to have shared so many moments with you, Ali
    From beach days to Friday night copas, Birthdays, Christmas and Easter parades.
    Road trips and overseas adventures – flights almost missed!
    Honoured and privileged to have worn many a costume, and watch you touch the lives of so many students and staff. You taught us so subtly how to be free. My Pilgrims WOW sister, always with me.
    Honoured and privileged to have been loved by you.
    Honoured and privileged to have laughed and cried with you.
    Honoured and Privileged to have had a friend in you.

    Never Forgotten
    You’ll never be forgotten
    That simply cannot be.
    As long as I am living
    I’ll carry you with me.
    Safely tucked into my heart
    Your light will always shine;
    A glowing ember never stilled,
    Throughout the end of time.
    No matter what the future brings;
    Or what may lie ahead,
    I know that you will walk with me,
    Along the path I tread.
    So rest my angel,
    Be at peace and let your soul fly free.
    One day, I’ll join your glorious flight
    For all eternity.

    Love Always

  • Carole Wraith says:

    Ali was beauty – love, light and song. Vivacious, fun to be with and naturally glamorous.
    She had a generous heart, a great sense of humour and a huge warm and welcoming smile.
    True, elegant, unassuming and totally unique.
    We have been so lucky to have met you, Ali. You will be loved, treasured and in our hearts forever. xxx

  • Sarah says:

    Sister’s soul sister

    I met you… early 90s
    In tow from America, a new sister?
    With tales of exploits, scrapes,
    Plans for a swashbuckling future
    Excited, exuberant, effervescent
    (and with a questionable taste in music…)

    How you fitted, became a fixture
    Brightening, widening, connecting

    Moments of zest, aching tears of laughter and fun…

    Granada, Christmas gifts from families far and wide
    Peruvian hats, dolphin bags, crazy photos

    The London years,
    Starsky and Hutch freak outs,
    New Cross pot luck lunches,
    Park picnics, Peckham, Greenwich, Richmond
    With your soul sister, twins in Chinese pyjamas
    Bursting in at Heathrow arrivals

    Then Izzy time,
    Perpetual make-believe,
    Donkey, or puss in boots, pirate adventures
    There, you became a mermaid
    Tita de corazon

    In your Malaga tower, (fitting for a princess of the seas)
    You welcomed, hosted, buoyed
    Refuge for shipwrecked souls
    and adventuring pioneers
    Days of sun, salt, seaweed,
    sand, sea, sisterhood

    Unique you, in your tide
    We became a better version
    Bigger, braver, bolder
    Like you, flying sea and sand encrusted,
    We carry Ali magic within us
    Watch how we ride the waves
    Lighter, faster, prouder

    We knew Ali
    See how we shine!

  • Rosa says:

    Sigo intentando asimilarlo porque es muy triste que nos hayas dejado tan pronto. Qué afortunada fui de haberte conocido y compartir tan buenos momentos contigo, nos dejas un gran vacío Ali pero qué bonito es saber que has tocado el corazón de tantos de nosotros ♥️

  • Sofi says:

    Querida Alison, en mi último whatsapp, estando ingresada te dije
    “descansa y sueña en cosas bonitas y en todo el mundo que te quiere”. Y tu respuesta fue un corazón grande, rojo intenso y latiendo. Sigue así cariño, sueña con lo bonito y aquí tienes a la gente que te quiere, todos muy agradecidos, orgullosos y felices de que hayas compartido con nosotros tu gran corazón, derrochado amor, alegría y discreción. Es la huella que nos has dejado y por supuesto, tu dulce sonrisa. Descansa en paz.

  • The Mama says:

    Not altogether ready to write a memory for my Little First Born – I don’t think I’m in the right space just now to do her justice, but these are two things I wanted to share.
    As I flew across the Pacific the other night to be with Ali one last time – just a tiny speck hurtling across a darkened sky – I watched these two movies, courtesy of Singapore Airlines and these are the quotes that I took from them:
    “A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others”
    From Wizard of Oz in ‘Judy’
    and
    “All the good things in my life seem to be connected to (Ali) in some way”
    Talking about Meryl Streep’s character in ‘Let them all talk’
    OMG, where would any of us be without Meryl?

  • Lorna from London says:

    Thank you for the happy days we shared in Seville and Granada, so many treasured moments🤩

    Heaven has gained a beautiful angel with a warm heart and bright smile. Big hugs, kisses and peace to all those you have left behind❤️ You will never be forgotten🌷💐

  • Louise says:

    I am so lucky to have known you and spent time with you at my home and yours and on the beach in Malaga, you were always full of life and I know you will be missed by everyone that knew you, I have a tear in my eye as I am writing this and I lit a candle for you when I found out of your passing.. if everyone of us could be as lovely as you the world would be a better place…all my love to your family..xx😢❤️

  • Elvira Fájula González says:

    Querida Alison!
    Que tristeza el saber que ya no volveremos a coincidir por los pasillos del colegio.
    Nuestros horarios han sido incompatibles y han hecho que no tuviéramos un contacto más estrecho , pero siempre recordaré tus saludos acompañados de una bonita sonrisa que transmitía cercanía .
    Siento muchísimo que te hayas marchado tan joven , pero estoy segura de que estarás en algún lugar mágico y bonito.
    Estarás siempre en nuestros corazones.
    Un abrazo grande para toda tu familia.
    Te recordaremos siempre ❤️

  • Jane says:

    Ali , we never got that night out together in Fuengy did we?
    When I think of you I think of a funny, crazy , groovy hippy chick …. so kind & lovely & so very special ..& the four of us sex and the city girls singing “the way we were” at the top of our lungs in Tarifa.
    I will always remember you my darling & smile ❤️

  • Justyna says:

    Dear Ali,

    You may no longer be here with us physically, but you will be in my heart always, always kind and loving, always smiling.

    Xx

  • Pedro Costa says:

    Working in a hospital you would think that you get prepared for such news when the day comes. But it doesn’t truly.
    I was seriously devasted and in anger about how unfair it is. Losing such a person, such a human being as soon it’s not right, it can’t be.
    There are few people out there that are so likely and loved as you were, you had an amazing personality and are one of the kind. I loved and learnt a lot from the time we worked together, you were a mentor to me.
    I hope that you keep looking for all of us as you always did whenever you are now.
    Miss you a lot and lots of love.

  • Beatriz, Maria, candela y Javier says:

    Querida Alison, aún seguimos en shock todos nosotros sobre tu muerte tan repentina. Vamos a echarte muchísimo de menos cada miércoles y viernes cuando mis tres hijos esperen esas maravillosas clases y conversaciones en inglés. Fueron 8 años contigo, aprendieron mucho, se divertían con una persona que era generosa, alegre y sobre todo muy buena. Aún recuerdo la última clase el 19 de marzo desde tu casa y on line porque estábamos muy lejos de Malaga, con tu sombrero de ganchillo y esa sonrisa tan características. Sabiendo que te deparaba una peligrosa operación, estabas feliz para no preocuparnos y haciendo planes para cuando volvieras a tener clases de nuevo con mis hijos. Gracias por todos estos años, donde estés seguirás haciendo feliz y enseñando tanto seguro, aquí te recordaremos siempre como fuiste, alegre, vital, un persona muy especial! Te echaremos de menos, descansa en paz!.

  • Ricardo Pelaez says:

    Cuantas veces hemos coincidido en reuniones en casa o en cualquier otro sitio, has hecho notar tu presencia discreta o animosa, cálida y cercana, tu afecto hacia nosotros y tu enorme cariño a nuestra nietecita Isi.
    En nuestro recuerdo permanecerá siempre tu sonrisa, tu amabilidad y tu elegancia.
    Ahora estás en el mejor de los sitios, ante Quien puedes interceder por los que aquí quedamos.
    Querida Ali, ruega por nosotros.

  • Jimena says:

    Dear Ali, I don’t have words… I can’t express how thankful I am to you and how much I love you. When I first came to Harrow I was afraid of everything but I learnt from you that we have to face life with a smile, as you did. You changed me. You changed me into what I am today. You taught me how to be a better person and I could never thank you enough for that. I had the chance to share with you 2 extraordinary summers in Harrow during which you were like a mother to me. You took care of me every day, you surrounded everyone with love and happiness, always with that wonderful smile of yours and always bringing joy to every moment. I am so grateful for having the chance to know you because you were and will always be for me an amazing, caring and unforgettable woman, an outstanding person… you will always be in my heart and I will never, never forget you. How you always supported me, how you helped everyone… Indescribable. Always full of happiness, a happiness that you shared with everyone. I just can’t describe how amazing you were… there are no words… you are just a MEGA WOW!
    I will always remember you.
    With all my love,
    Jimena López ❤

  • Gregor says:

    Ali had such a positive, happy, infectious personality that made everyone around her feel good. She made the Pilgrims camp so much more special for me, the other staff and the kids and will be hugely missed by so many people.
    Although I only spent a short time with her, I’ll never forget her.

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • Misha says:

    Dear Ali Darling,
    From the moment I met you all those years ago in London, after you and Rachel had done Camp America, I connected with you. You are and will always be a shining star whose loveliness radiated in every person that you touched. Whenever we all met, it was pure laughs, pretending to be whoever we wanted, letting our imaginations run wild. Your amazing spirit will live on in all of us and when we meet again we will continue where we left off – love you💗

  • Jeannette Kadia says:

    The magic of Ali! ✨
    Ali was one of the first people I met in Málaga when I moved into Rachel’s place for a year, which practically meant living with Ali for a year. In true Spanish style, I went from the airport straight into a house party & Ali was sitting next to me, we talked like we’d known each other for years already! Since then, I’ve been lucky to share so many beautiful memories with Ali & Rachel – birthdays, parties, nights out, a few sing-alongs with glasses of wine, a road trip to Tarifa and of course, fun beach days. All of which hold a special memory because sometimes you meet someone for a short while, but the memories last a lifetime, and Ali was one of those special people.
    Ali was full of fun and laughter; when my friends met Ali at my birthday party, she was an instant hit! We loved her 60s flair printed trousers & free-spirit; we all wanted to be as cool as Ali!
    I will never be able to listen to Cold Little Heart – Michael Kiwanuka again without thinking of Ali, Rach and I having a glass of wine together midweek after work & Ali with her big smile saying ‘Hola guapa!’ as I walked through the door 🙂
    I’m so fortunate to have known Ali and share some of her love & magic. She is an inspiration to everyone, reminding us constantly to be kind and live life to the fullest! Though she isn’t physically present with us anymore, her love, laughter and big warm heart will always be with us; she will always be loved and missed by millions.
    Ali, you are a shining star, truly one of a kind! 💫 🧜‍♀️
    Lots of love,
    Jeannette
    💛

  • Noko says:

    ali, you are the most caring, generous and just over all amazing person ever. i was remembering my pink pirate t shirt you made me which i loved so much. Remembering how when me and mummy first moved to spain you opened up you amazing home for us to stay at, your mermaid tower. Even people who you only met for a split second, like mia who also stayed at your home, have so much love for you. I loved hearing all you crazy stories like when you and Rachie met Johnny Depp. Im happy to say that i’m smiling whilst writing this and you, your stories and your memory will never end. We all love you so much!!

  • Karen & Shaun says:

    We may have only known you for a short time Ali, but from the start, you were in our hearts. You radiated joy, happiness, love and warmth. Always a smile and a welcome.
    You have gone too soon but you will never be forgotten. ❤

  • Cristina y los 4 niños says:

    Nuestra querida alison ,
    Cuanto dolor de saber que te has ido , has formado parte de nuestra vida más de 10 años , los niños han crecido contigo y disfrutado cada aprendizaje de mucho tuyo , no sólo era el idioma sino la ilusión , creatividad , cariño , paciencia y entrega en tu trabajo . Los cuatro han estado contigo y eras parte de nuestra vida y nuestra casa . Graicas x darnos tanto y sobre todo en momentos difíciles que has sacado el cariño y la paciencia que mis hijos necesitaban , por tener Esa sonrisa siempre y siempre tan tan alegre . Siempre disfrutando de tdoo y eras un ejemplo en eso para mi sobre todo . Siempre tab ideal con ese estilo tan tuyo que sólo tú lo llevaba tan bien .
    Ay alison este invierno quedamos que venías un día y en navidad lo pensé y leugo no nos vimos … y ya no estás … Eda sensación de no habernos despedido pero sin duda espero q algún día nos encontremos y que es una suerte haberte tenido y jamás te olvidaremos ni yo ni los 4 !!!! Cuanto dolor de esta noticia inesperada …… ya no me contarás tus viajes y tus ilusiones …. aunq aquí estemos muy tristes sin duda estarás bien y muy acompañada . Te queremos y un fuerte abrazo a toda tu familia y amigos más cercanos , siempre estaréis en nuestro corazón

  • Juanma, tu capitán! says:

    Hey Ali!!!
    Me siento un gran afortunado de haber formado parte de tu “familia urbana“ y haber tenido un hueco en ese corazón tuyo donde tantas almas han cabido, donde para todas tenías tu palabra precisa y tu sonrisa perfecta, y donde la palabra abandono nunca existió. Todas eran rescatadas y con todas te comprometías con tu naturalidad y sencillez! Toda una lección de vida que seguro nos va acompañar por el resto de nuestras vidas.
    Hoy lloro tu muerte con profundo dolor, el destino me ha mostrado la más desgarradora de sus caras, y solo albergo la esperanza que este dolor calme con el paso del tiempo y me abrigue solo la dulzura de tu recuerdo.

  • Claire & Shelagh says:

    Ali – a beautiful person inside and out, full of happiness and positive energy – laughter always bubbling close to the surface and we are so blessed to have been able to spend some truly memorable times with Ali over the years not only in Spain but also in NZ with her gorgeous family – those times we will never forget. Reconnecting with both Ali and Rach a few years ago at Claire’s wedding was a highlight in so many ways as the girls were all together again for a brief but happy time – boogieing away as always to our favourite disco music in formation, catching up as if the years between had been mere weeks.
    Ali – until the next time guapa – may you continue to sparkle and bring joy to all who had the privalege of knowing you – all our love Claire & Shelagh xx

  • Shelley says:

    A happier, crazier, more loving person I don’t think I’ve ever known. Your beautiful spirit will live on forever with us. We are devastated beyond measure but comforted in the knowledge you are flying free, on a new adventure, among the stars ⭐️
    ❤️💜💚💙

  • Hannah Hand says:

    Ali, I have learnt so much from you, both personally and professionally. You continue to be a role model for myself and young women everywhere. I am so privileged to have had many joyful times with you.

    You created a genuine sense of belonging on your Pilgrims courses (both for staff and students) which will continue for years to come. This, along with your endless love for everyone, is your legacy.

    Thank you, guapa. I will never forget you, your wide open arms or your beaming smile.

  • Priscilla Reyes says:

    Ali I never got to meet you in person,Just as you knew about me I knew about you.I was aware of your weekends out and about.Your love for your friends and family was unmeasurable.I would tell you this that I haven’t found words for Your Spanish sister.You were beautiful and strong look invincible. You walked with the universe on your shoulders and made it look like a pair of wings.Fly high make the other world celebrate you.

  • Claire P says:

    I first met Ali & most of the lovely Málaga girls in 2017, when I had just lost my partner & needed a lot of support. They were so friendly, so welcoming, & I remember saying ‘I really love Ali, so kind, so warm’. From then on I got to know them all and enjoy their fantastic friendship, & I saw the fun side of Ali, her beautiful smile & energy; she so kindly included me in her 50th celebrations, what fun we had. Weekends away, swap shops, lunches and nights out, our ‘Valentines Day’, and that fabulous trip to my house in Fuente de Piedra as a housewarming & birthday bash; I can hear Ali’s laughter now. I stayed in her flat in the summer of 2019 while she was working at Pilgrim’s, waking up & seeing the sea out of her window and being in her surroundings made me feel like I was getting to know her even more. The last time I saw Ali was just before Christmas & she came bouncing up to me & threw her arms around me. I am going to remember that hug, that smile & laughter, & that wonderfulness which is Ali, forever ❤

  • Ana Mosquera Gamero says:

    Querida Alison,
    En nombre del Colegio Sagrada Familia y en el mío propio quiero agradecerte la labor realizada en nuestro centro, siempre fue maravillosa!!! Aún recuerdo tu participación en la lectura del Principito para nuestro alumnado en el confinamiento. Genial!!!
    Ya te echamos de menos, siempre estarás en nuestros corazones. Te recordaremos con mucho cariño!

    Ana Mosquera

  • Andrew says:

    Ali you were a legend of a person and your positivity, joy for life and love for others will live on through those that knew you. I was lucky to spend many great summers with you and am so glad you were my partner in crime directing those courses. You were one of the reasons to keep coming back. Never have I felt so glad to have someone next to me after the telling off we received in that Harrow library. #Assaultcoursegate. You were impossible not to love and I’ll miss you terribly.

  • Mad Mike says:

    Alison such a pleasure to coach & have fun times with!
    Always smiling, always positive, full of energy & light!
    A beautiful lady who will be sadly missed !

  • Lucía says:

    Tita Ali te recordaré siempre como una de las personas que más magia y alegría han desprendido en mi vida. Tú sonrisa me ayudó siempre a querer mantener la mía. Te quiero mucho, juccylussy con cariño.

  • Lisa Wooley Owens says:

    💖💃🏼🌺💃🏼💖
    Ali was a badass. One of those good ones. Her smile so bright it lightened the world and left sparkles on your face. Anyone that was around her would be infected with this magic and the smile that never left her face.
    I and a lot of others met Ali in 1986 at Atlantic & Pacific Travel in Parnell. The party started then. The corner pub called The Windsor Castle was were we met to mix and mingle on a social basis and from there it was when our little families were made
    Most of us have kept in touch since.
    Losing this bright light is so unimaginable. A little piece of my heart has been torn.
    Fly away little angel and sprinkle your sunshine where ever you go
    Lots of love forever
    Loloma levu
    From Lisa🌺💃🏼💃🏼🌺

  • Bec Bear says:

    I was blessed to be one of Ali’s many sisters from Aotearoa New Zealand. We didn’t spend much time, but I knew of her love. She loved my children, she sprinkled her stardust, and I am brokenhearted for the ones who have loved her so deeply through the years. I am grateful for feeling the power of a woman’s life lived out loud. Sending love, strength and courage to you all, as you transition to life with Ali in your hearts, memories and imaginations. She taught me this: “e huri tō aroaro ki te rā, tukuna tō ataarangi ki muri i a koe”… Turn and face the sun and let your shadow fall behind you. Aroha nui, love in abundance <3

  • Al Thompson says:

    Not many people live up to the ‘you’re going to love my friend’ billing, but Ali certainly did. As kind & considerate as she could be funny & outrageous no party, beach trip or just visit to the Hawley Arms will feel the same again. A much loved ‘auntie’ to my family & I’m pleased to say friend to me she felt as much a part of London life as she was a joy whenever I was lucky to be in Malaga. I’m sad we’ll never complete the golden triangle…
    Much love to the New Zealand family & The Spanish family that I know she held so dear.

  • Maque says:

    Ali, mi querida Ali. Tengo el corazón destrozado y no paro de pensar en tí. Eras y seguirás siendo maravillosa, divertida, cariñosa, cordial y muy amiga de tus amigos. Dejas un hueco enorme en nosotros. Te echaremos de menos muchísimo. Irradiabas luz y generosidad por doquier…Siempre te tendré en mi corazón guapa!! Nos has enseñado mucho de la vida. Disfrútala allá arriba. Un angel en el cielo.

  • Bunj says:

    Privileged to have met you. Always made me feel comfortable straight away. Thanks for being you!

  • Clare says:

    Oh Ali, I’m so sad about this. I last saw you at Claire’s wedding where we planned to meet up when you had some spare time in London. I have happy memories of staying in your tower apartment in Malaga. I was always in awe of how you blended into Spanish life. I’m sorry for your friends to lose you like this. Adios guapetona cx

  • Eduard says:

    From the moment I found out, it felt as if life slightly darker and colder… and obviously it’s like that now since a beautiful warmlight is now gone.

    Ali was truly an inspirational human-being. Someone whose energy was infectious and brought so much joy to anyone who was lucky enough to meet her.

    The Pilgrims Family will deeply miss you but just like our motto says, and I’m sure Ali would want it to be like this, we shall not cry because she is now gone but smile because of the time we spent together.

    We love you Ali. Always ❤️

  • Sally says:

    Beautiful, lovely, bubbly, infectious with happiness. You’ll be sorely missed by so so many.

  • Macarena says:

    Miss Rosario Moreno como siempre me llamabas……cuanto echaré de menos verte llegar cada mañana con esa luz y alegría que desprendias, con tus complementos “chulos”que me encantaban y por los que siempre te preguntaba, esperarte en las filas con alumnos para darte algún recado y acabar riéndonos a carcajadas.
    Has ocupado un hueco enorme en nuestros corazones y nunca te olvidaremos.
    El cielo ha ganado una súper estrella contigo… ♥

  • Nathalie Hadj says:

    No me puedo creer que ya no estás Ali. Te conocí hace 23 años, bailando un haka y pensé: ” qué divertida y sonriente”, y esos dos adjetivos te han descrito desde entonces. Eres un ser de luz Ali, que has brillado siempre y que seguirá haciendolo allá donde estés…te echaré de menos. Que la tierra te sea leve.

  • Natalie says:

    A natural free authentic Spirit who truly enjoyed Life. Everyone loved Ali. You will be missed, though every time we remember you, we shall smile. Thank you, Ali, for sprinkling your joy over so many of us.

  • Till says:

    Pilgrims Summers will never feel the same without Ali.
    The directors’ meeting in late May/early June was always the highlight of our year, as this was the time when we all met again, looking forward to being together again. Ali always played a huge part in cementing the cohesiveness of these events: her gregarious personality coupled with her knack to engage with everyone, enriched the ambiance in those gatherings. Her convivial rapport with others made her the insatiable source of positive energy within the Pilgrims teachers bubble. Whether individually or as a cohort, one always felt comfortable, in her presence. No words will capture the full sense of the warm strokes she radiated; she was a truly exceptional person!
    The abundance of energy that she could maintain throughout a 3 week course kept teenagers inspired throughout; and this, year after year: Ali never aged! She maintained a youthful outlook throughout her life.
    Like everyone else, I admired her; like everyone, I shall miss her within the Pilgrims family.

  • Michelle Malcolm says:

    So grateful to have known you for all of these years Ali, so much fun & adventures & craziness in our Atlantic & Pacific days. Our two week trip to the Gold Coast with Di & Claire as 18 year olds was just one of the best holidays ever!
    Your beautiful soul, your infectious laugh, your shining light….we love you our gorgeous friend…fly high beautiful 👼💕

  • Pilar Corchs says:

    Hacía tiempo que nada sabía de ti. La vida da muchas vueitas, las circunstancias cambian, y sin darnos cuenta, pasan los años… Ali ya no está, me dijo mi hijo, en una llamada precipitada y nerviosa.. Cuando me lo explicó mas detenidamente.. mi ánimo se derrumbó y como en una película comenzaron a desfilar escenas familiares, entrañables en casa, celebrando cualquier cosa, abrazos, risas, chistes y Ali estaba allí.. La recuerdo así, con esa risa franca y abierta, tan natural.
    Miro ahora la foto que encabeza su homenaje y me admiro lo bien elejida que está. Es toda una metáfora… esa sonrisa única, esa postura tan natural, así era, sencilla, ese mantón castizo, amor por esta tierra que la arropa. No sé ese fondo, pero yo pienso que ese Mediterráneo del que tanto disfrutó.
    Sé que dejas un vacío enorme, y será proporcionado a la huella que dejas. Ya ves cómo te recuerdan quienes te han conocido.. Un ser luminoso y benéfico, que no caera en el olvido.. Donde estés seras feliz. Te queremos.

  • SUSAN Woodhouse says:

    Dearest Ali visited my life briefly through special occasions shared with her family in New Zealand. I remember her as very vivacious and warm and sparkly. I can only say better to have lived and loved than never to have lived all. May Ali’s magic not be lost from my being now she has gone. May that spirit of her life comfort all her family and friends so that you smile inside despite your grief at her leaving when she did. The room is no longer blessed with the light and life she had but her legacy of living well remains 💖

  • Eva Sánchez says:

    Maya Angelou once wrote, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” And tha’t exactly what I want to remember. You made everybody around you feel happier and better about themselves, and that is something not many people can do.
    I was very fortunate to have met you, not only because we examined together, but most importantly because we worked together side by side for the past two years. You have been a blessing to our school. Rosario Moreno will never forget how you made us feel.
    Ali, today I just want to celebrate your life, your kind heart, your fierce mind and your brave spirit. I will always treasure our last conversation, just when you found out you could no longer work. I was impressed by your courage and your determination to get well.
    Ali, hard working, dedicated teacher, eager to learn and innovate, full of passion and compassion.
    Thank you for having been a part of our “Cambridge Corner” at Rosario Moreno.
    Hoy hay una estrella más en el cielo brillando con luz propia.

  • Leah Luke says:

    I loved you from the interview. It was like speaking to a Bestie. Ali you have been such a special person in my life, full of laughter and sunshine, always up for a lime. Your company is so naturally intoxicating. You are so kind, thoughtful and charismatic, a real free spirit. You are loved by so many, you’ve touched so many lives, will be missed by everyone. You will light up heaven and will always be an Angel in my life.

  • Laura y Ramón says:

    Que tristeza tenemos Ali, por nuestros amigos q ya no te van a tener en sus vidas, y por nosotros q a pesar de vernos una vez al año, durante muchos, supistes hacernos sentir queridos, escuchados siempre, y sobre todo acogidos. Tu alegría, cercanía y belleza serán imposibles de olvidar. Siempre Ali

  • Alex Whiting says:

    Finding out this news has been heart breaking. She lit up every room she was in, with her beautiful wit, kindness and caring nature.

    I worked with Ali every summer for three years and she made those three summers a memory I’ll never forget.

    I will miss her hugs and laughter. She will be always in my heart.

    I’ll be raising a glass to you Ali tonight and remembering the happy times we had together

    Love you Ali xx

  • tula crooke says:

    Recordaré siempre tu simpatía y sonrisa ! Eres de esas personas que siempre quieres tenerlas al lado . Te echaré mucho de menos

  • Thomas says:

    I wrote your name in the sand, but the waves washed it away. I wrote your name in the sky, but the wind blew it away. So I wrote your name in my heart,/and that’s where it will stay, always. Farewell, Ali.

  • Nuria says:

    Nobody but you! You’ll by my side, and i know It! ♥️

  • Sheila Charles says:

    Beautiful Mermaid, such sad news, always kind and happy. Rest in peace- Love from Sheila & Familyxxxxx

  • Pilar says:

    And now, the oceans have a new mermaid, the waves have a new sweet voice in the chorus, and the shadow is banished from her path.

  • Cathy, Pepe, Joe and Carla says:

    We enjoyed only a few, but intense, bursts of Ali-magic. She brought us love, laughter and the rare ability to forget herself and be a child again. She also showed empathy, compassion and acceptance of others. Our deepest condolences to her family and closest friends. We will never, ever forget her.

  • Sergio says:

    Allá donde estés encantado de conocerte Alison. Fuiste una sonrisa constante, un buenos días o un buenas tardes por donde te veía aún estando de espaldas, y lo acompañabas de un que tal?, junto con tu sonrisa lo dicho, que ni la mascarilla ocultaba. Así que encantado y si me lo permites GRACIAS compañera por haberte conocido. Miles de besos!!!!!

  • Harriet Cotterill says:

    Although not a close friend Ali touched my heart, my sadness is that I won’t continue to get to know this beautiful soul! My memories of Ali are of warmth and vibrancy, full of life and laughter. The last time I saw Ali she was dancing on a zoom call, that’s how I will always remember her, and her spirit. Bless you Ali hope you’re dancing in the afterlife, see you there!

  • Reza says:

    Happy to have met this beautiful and lovely woman with a ready smile and good sense of humor. So sad that we cannot spend more time together, you left much too early and I keep you in mind and heart. 🌹❤️🌺😍🌸😍🌺❤️🌹

  • Nicky says:

    How can you have been here one minute and gone the next? So grateful to have met you Ali. Your beautiful soul shines on in all of us xxx

  • Pilar says:

    Una amiga y vecina muy divertida durante mis años felices en Málaga, recuerdos miles de nuestras risas, lágrimas(por tu parte pocas), cenas, escapadas, días de playa, de fiesta, conciertos, de cumpleaños, de confidencias, de alegrías y de penas…pero siempre con una GRAN sonrisa. Las circunstancias de la vida nos mantuvo separadas estos últimos años pero siempre te he tenido en mis fotos y en mis recuerdos de aquellos maravillosos años juntas.
    Alison…tu has dejado huella en mi, principalmente por tu alegría, bondad y naturalidad. Nunca te olvidaré, estás en mi corazón y deseo de verdad que nuestras almas se vuelvan a reunir, eres una estrella más en el firmamento, cada noche antes de acostarme y desde mi balcón en Fuerteventura te sonreiré.
    Siento muy profundamente en mi corazón que te hayas ido tan pronto, sobre todo porque tenía planeado visitarte después de tu operación y volver a abrazarnos…pero te fuiste….así que te deseo que estés en paz y sin perder esa sonrisa luminosa que tanto me enganchó de ti desde el primer día que te conocí ese día loco de la feria del 98.
    Agradecida a la vida de haber compartido unos años junto a tí.
    Te quiero 💖

  • Kathy says:

    I have been so lucky to have spent time with Ali on my 70th birthday. We connected immediately. A very special human being with so much to give and her loss is felt hugely. I hold you in my heart dear Ali.
    With all the love I can give
    Kathy 💜

  • Ricardo says:

    Dónde descansan las sirenas? Nunca lo sabré, nunca fui sirena ni lo seré, cómo voy a saber dónde descansan las sirenas. Para ser sirena tienes que ser esbelta y guapa, tienes que saber nadar no solo bien, sino con estilo, con glamour, diciendo a cada aletada aquí estoy yo. Disfrutan de cada minuto, de cada segundo de la vida, dando luz y esperanza en este mar lleno de náufragos, sin saberlo, sin quererlo siquiera. Van de dos en dos, hermanadas, protegiéndose, complementándose y guiando a las de menor edad, educando y compartiendo, riendo y llorando. Riendo, a carcajadas limpias, puras y verdaderas, de esas que te desarman. Se fue Ali, una sirena, a descansar, dejando dentro mío un vacío aterrador pero a la vez la paz y el amor que solo las personas muy especiales son capaces de dar. Lo veo en mi hija, la veo a ella en mi hija, y me considero el hombre más afortunado del mundo. Descanse la sirena, donde ellas descansen, nunca nadará sola.

  • Javi says:

    Ali, me entristece mucho tu partida. Fuiste una de las personas más alegres que he conocido, me quedo con tu eterna sonrisa y tus ganas de pasarlo bien contra viento y marea. Siento no haber estado cerca estos últimos años, y siento el dolor de los que siempre tuviste y tendrás cerca, especialmente Isi, Rachel y Ricardo. Espero que donde estés aún tengas esa alegría tan grande.

  • Jane Clarke says:

    Ali you’ll be missing by my family who have been involved in your life through your time at Harrow, you were very much loved by us all and will be greatly missed, thank you for making the lives you’ve touched so awesome ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • Alumnos de 4°A de primaria y tutora says:

    Siempre alegre, siempre activa, dándolo todo a sus alumnos. Te recordaremos siempre.

  • Anne says:

    Ali, you were such an energetic and fun person! I will miss you and our Sundays at Rosario Moreno. Hope you are still shining wherever you are! Love always

  • Carmel and Mike says:

    Ali was definitely magic! She had such a big heart and a zest for life and our limited time together was always interesting, real and just somehow special. We loved coming to Malaga for the 50th birthday weekend, hanging out at the beach, catching up, reminiscing and of course dancing. Mike and I met at one of Ali’s salsa parties in her flat in south east London on a sunny Sunday afternoon in 1994! Ali will always have a special place in our hearts xx

  • Francis Rodriguez says:

    Dearest Ali! I will never forget the time we shared together working on those summer courses in London! You were instrumental in turning those months of work into pleasure with your energy, your smile and your fun-loving nature. I’ll never forget us both dressing up as Santa and celebrating Christmas in the middle of July. There was never a dull moment. It was a real pleasure and privilege to work alongside you and spend time with you! You will be missed but never ever forgotten!! 💔

  • Janet says:

    Dear sweet Ali, You were not only beautiful on the outside, but also on the inside. Javi, Emma, Javi Jr and I have so many lovely memories of you and your sunny smile, especially the times when you painted their faces at every birthday, Communion and special occasion. The world is a much sadder place without you. You will always be remembered with much love by all those fortunate to have known you. Rest in peace xxxx

  • Clara Gobernado says:

    En preciosas ocasiones la vida te regala estrellas, personas y momentos que sobresalen, a los que vuelves con una sonrisa en la cara y un aleteo en el pecho. Toda tú, en todo momento, has sido esa gran estrella para todos los que hemos tenido la inmensa suerte de vivirte. Gracias por el inmenso amor que nos dejas. Volveremos mucho a los momentos contigo, mariposa fantástica. Gracias.

  • Lynne Brammer says:

    I had heard so many stories about Ali from my dear friend Claire. I finally had the pleasure of meeting her at Claire’s wedding a couple of years ago. What a wonderful, funny, joyous person to be in the company of. That one day laughing and celebrating will stay with me forever. Your smile, your laughter, we danced all day!
    A soul taken to early but you have left a piece of you in all our hearts.
    Fly high Ali ❤️🙏

  • Fiona says:

    Ali, you were the definition of bubbly. Happiness oozed out of you and your smile was contagious. Your smile will live on forever in our hearts ♥️ You had this amazing ability to cheer anyone up. I started my examining journey with you, I’m going to miss laughing our asses off about the random noises my car would make!
    Your positivity will be missed in this world, but I know you’ll be making people smile and laugh wherever you are ❤️

  • Sergio Gallardo says:

    Was a few moment yo share with you, enough to feel the shine and beautiful vibe of you self.. Only God know why is his calling to you.. He have a better plan.. My best wishes to trascender dear friend..!!

  • Carolina Carrasco baca says:

    Oh Dear Ali! I will always remembering you smiling, bubbly, happy, shining!
    We have laugh , you have been my shoulder in difficult occasions, and we always had a good laugh. I know you have left your body & mind , but your soul & your essence will remain eternally, and on your next life , I am sure you dont have many more left till you reach the Sadami ( Nirvana) will be even more beautiful! I hope we crossed path again in our next Lives! Love you ! 🕉💜

  • Lisa says:

    Ali was a radiant soul, a charming, vivacious and a truly splendid, wonderful human being. Although I only met up with her a few times she immediately, with typical generosity of spirit, made me feel like a friend. I am so sad at her passing but I feel blessed to have known her.
    Wherever you are Ali, I know there is fun, love and laughter. Everyone who knew you will miss you. xxxx

  • María José Lucio-Villegas says:

    Alison, solo he coincidido contigo en pocas ocasiones y siempre a través de mi hermano. Recuerdo de ti esa mirada limpia y un semblante amable, sereno con esa sonrisa entre divertida y pícara. Me llamó la atención tu alegría y tú bondad.
    Siento que te hayas ido tan pronto de tu vida. Gracias por tu presencia leal y vitalista en la vida de mi hermano y tant@s amig@s que dejas aquí. Siempre recordaré esa mirada limpia y serena. Gracias!!

  • Gemma says:

    Qué chica tan simpática, tan alegre y tan risueña. La verdad es que siempre la veía con una gran sonrisa.
    Te mando un beso enorme allá arriba. Otra estrella brillando😘😘❤️❤️

  • Kerrie says:

    Mate, what can I say…..right now, not much. Write this with tears of sadness mixed with tears of laughter at all our fun times as school kids, summer holidays and a bright yellow Citreon CV. One of my treasured memories is you standing with me as my Bridesmaid and waking up next to you on the morning of my wedding talking about the big black rain cloud looming haha

    Sleep tight lovely lady. Until we meet again and do Grease in the sky, making everyone sit and watch us (even if they don’t want to)

    Forever your Danny to my Sandy

    XX

  • Felipe says:

    Te recordaremos siempre alegre, con una sonrisa y sin esperar nada a cambio. Vital y con ganas de disfrutar de todo. Ha sido un placer conocerte y disfrutar contigo esos pequeños momentos de música y baile. Allá donde estés, disfrutaran siempre con tu compañía y nosotros con los mejores recuerdos. Descansa en paz Alison.

  • Shooshoo says:

    To have lived as such a bright light, laughter, exuberance is a great lesson for all who witnessed this beautiful woman!
    Grateful to have had the luck to spend various hours with her.

  • Julia says:

    Yes, we have been with Alison several times, and she will stay in our memory; beautiful, funny, lovely, outgoing.
    Sad that she had to go so young but we will remember her with happiness 😍🖤❤️❤️❤️

  • PEPI says:

    No conocía personalmente a Ali, pero había escuchado hablar a personas muy cercanas la admiración que sentían hacia su persona . Siento no haber podido conversar contigo, me hubiese encantado. Un abrazo inmenso de mi familia y mío

  • M Luisa Lucio says:

    Coincidi con ella tres, cuatro veces, íntima de un familiar. Desde el primer día que me la presentaron su mirada era diciendo “bienvenida” y su sonrisa perenne me hizo sentir en casa.
    Poco tiempo, pocas veces pero las suficientes para dejar huella en mi, su dulzura, alegría, entusiasmo, comodidad y plenitud que derrochaba era lo que yo ví y sentí. Consideré afortunado a mi familiar por tenerla a su lado. Por lo poco que experimente me llamó la atención du luz, naturalidad, sencillez y me quedo con la sensación que me dio y es que vivía como quería, rodeada de quien quería, donde quería y profesionalmente disfrutaba con lo que hacia. Así que chapó por Alison, ayer brinde tres veces por ella, rei y disfruté pq se que ella eso le hubiera gustado. Y….. ella alucinara desde donde este, que seguro que nos ve, de que aparte del amor, huella que ha hecho sentir y dejado a sus allegados también hay much@s much@s que ella no se acuerda pero dejó huella, bienestar y momentos que no se olvidarán. Descansa Alison y se FELIZ. Siempre te recordaré.

  • Paula says:

    Vital, alegre, llena de luz, simpática, buena persona… Te recordaré siempre así, porque personas tan especiales hacen que la vida tenga sentido. Un fuerte abrazo allá donde estés! Gracias.

  • Pepe says:

    Dulce, simpática, cariñosa, positiva… Siempre con ganas de mirar hacia adelante y de pasarlo bien. Feliz de haberte conocido y triste por no haber compartido más momentos contigo. Un beso muy fuerte allá donde estés y gracias por tu alegría. Te quiero 💖

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